Yet it’s possible to be lonely in a crowd.
Once you being practicing the Law of Attraction, you start to see your world differently. You also learn how to see yourself in a new light. As you become in tune with the world instead of battling against it, you discover the immense power of positive energy.
That’s where you start to hear what you never heard before in your circle of friends. Your home takes on the positive energy you invite into it so that you attract what nurtures your goals and desires.
Suddenly the sarcasm you used to laugh at begins to feel uncomfortable. You thought that friend was funny and edgy, but now you feel a conflict as his negative energy clashes with your positive energy.
Another friend calls regularly to dump his problems on you. You’ve patiently listened and offer advice but he makes the same bad judgments over and over. You even tried to introduce him to the Law of Attraction, but he has a dozen excuses as to why it won’t work for him.
Finally you see that he doesn’t want to change. You can feel badly for him, but you need to cancel your reservation at his pity parties. His negative energy is draining your positive energy and neither of you benefits.
Those are just a few realizations you begin to have about people in your friend circle. Some will notice the difference in you and want to know how to find the peace, prosperity and maturity that you found in the Law of Attraction.
Others will feel like you left them behind and want you to go back to your old self (if you’ve ever dieted before, it’s like those friends who take you out to throw temptations at you to see if you’ll indulge in junk food so they can feel okay with how they’re eating).
Eventually you have to make a choice – turn your back on what you know is the truth or mix with the old, negative crowd. That’s when you have to prune your friends list. As harsh as this sounds, it really isn’t.
In nature, trees are pruned at key points in order to make the tree blossom and grow stronger branches. Without pruning, the branches grow wild, are poorly supported and threaten the health of the entire tree.
The same is true in your life. As you transform yourself to maximum positive energy, you just can’t go back to the old negative ways. You have to prune your connections to pessimistic, angry and parasitic people from your inner circle of friends.
You can be gracious to them in public without bringing their negative energy into your home or spending time with them. Instead, draw into your inner circle those people whose goals and desires are similar to yours.
If none of your current group of friends fits that definition, then you turn again to the Law of Attraction to bring the right people into your circle while drawing you into circles of those who practice what you believe.
Law of Attraction for Weight Loss
What you think becomes reality. If you think that you’re fat, then you are. If you believe that you will never lose weight, then you won’t.
Your thoughts will bring to you the exact vibration from the universe that you give. If you send out thoughts of not being able to succeed in losing weight, then you won’t overcome that until you change your thoughts.
Check out the people who have been wildly successful in weight loss even to the point of losing hundreds of pounds. No new information about weight loss suddenly appeared on the market.
What changed was the way the people thought about their weight loss journey. They turned from the negative can’t do it to the positive, ‘I’ve made up my mind and it’s happening’ way of thinking.
The universe responds by affirming that belief.
In weight loss, you will attract what you think and what you think will become your visualization of your weight loss journey. Your visualization will then determine what your attitude is toward losing weight.
You can’t help it if you were never taught how to eat properly and you gained a lot of weight. You can’t help it if health problems have packed pounds on to your frame. But what you have to do is not to focus on what you can’t help. Those are the negatives and those negatives will embed themselves in your life to keep you exactly where you are.
You can’t change what you can’t change, but you can change what you can change. You’re the master of how you allow things to affect you – of whether or not you let things and situations give you a negative viewpoint in life. You have the power to make any change happen.
Don’t visualize yourself as better looking or happier once the weight is off. You must love and accept yourself the way you are right now. Love yourself, accept yourself and take care of yourself.
How can you use the Law of Attraction to do this? How do you change what you want changed about your weight? Stop focusing on all the negatives about weight loss. Don’t dwell on what you can’t do such as, ‘I can’t have that second (or third) helping of pizza,’ instead keep your thoughts fixed on what you will gain. Stay focused on all of the positives associated with weight loss. Such as, ‘I’m going to get that new outfit because I am slender enough to fit into it.’ Decide that the battle of the bulge has already been won and then treat yourself as if it has. Expect positive results and you’ll get them.
Making Positive Eating Choices With the Law of Attraction
The Law of Attraction can bring abundance into every aspect of your life. What if having too much is your problem? For people who are overweight, too much of a good thing became excess pounds.
That puts the entire body out of balance and sets you up for many negative health consequences. So you try yet another diet – fail, get disgusted and eat more. It’s a cycle of defeat that usually leads to gaining back more pounds than you lost.
The medical experts call it ‘yo-yo dieting.’ It’s often more about negativity in your life than about food. If you’re tired of buying diet books, going to meetings, measuring food and feeling deprived, then stop it.
You already know it doesn’t work. Turn your attention back to yourself, not what you eat or when you eat it. Food is a measure of abundance or lack. Food is among the most basic human needs for survival.
It’s also a measure of wealth and success. Whether you dine at the best restaurants in town or hit the drive-in for a burger and fries, food is available. Over time, you fall into the trap of ‘living to eat, instead of eating to live.’
Since the Law of Attraction is about abundance, how can it help with weight loss? Simple – the Law of Attraction brings into your life what you need rather than more of what you don’t need.
If food is a substitute for love, attention or self-acceptance, then you are only filling yourself with the wrong things. Chocolate and chips don’t have the power to satisfy longings of the heart.
That’s where the Law of Attraction is ideal for people who want and need to lose weight for health. First, create a detailed visualization of a trim and healthy you. Don’t put a number on this.
And don’t say ‘skinny’ or a spout of a certain clothing size. Allow the universe to work with you to bring you to the ideal weight for optimal health. See yourself wearing attractive clothing and feeling good about dressing up for special events instead of making excuses not to attend.
Contemplate feeling good inside your own body. From those images, create positive affirmations to use daily such as, ‘I easily make food choices that nourish my body.’ That’s far easier to reinforce than the usual dieter’s lament, ‘I won’t eat sweets today.’
Your mind responds to positives just as the universe resonates best from positive energy. By using