The precious thing in a woman has been and will be what God made it to be if it is well-preserved; otherwise, it loses its worth. Solomon was made to see these glories in woman, which led him to adultery, fornication, even idolatry. I am surprised that even women have not discovered what they are and what they have, forgetting that knowledge is power. Some have discovered it partially. If a woman recognizes what God made her to be, she will never be slight in the sight of men. Women are not created to service men's sexual desire or to destroy the heart of men but are created to be a personal assistant to man, a representative. Are women still precious and wonderful with an arrayed glory as God made them to be? Are they still pleasant? Can they be recognized as human, nowadays? Are they what Solomon described or something else?
Nowadays, observation has shown that women have taken the wind out of their sails. Most are not what they were made to be in the sight of God and men, even in the sight of animals. All over the world, women have depreciated in terms of beauty, value, pleasantness, and when we are talking about beauty, we mean natural elegance, prettiness, not artificially or as a result of attachments. Most women have lost their precious glory, their pride, honor, right, high merit, potential, and power. Some of the fundamental things that led to the downfall of a destined child could be cheating, hypocricy, greed, and ignorance.
Also, women lost those excellent things God imputed in them when they were used in advertisement in movies, magazines, and television networks. They coach you on how to dress and appear sexy, just to attract viewers. People don't know the importance of the night because it becomes perpetually and not seasonally, so when women appear naked or half-naked in advertisements, their respect and regard are automatically lost. The precious unseen gold is now an underdog, a blot on the landscape.
Nowadays, women are anxious about catcalls wherever and wherever they are moving on the street or before any man. That's why they dress to kill. They yearn to have sex. Why are they inviting men to hotels, where most of them are residing? They can even kill and do illegal things just to get a man. They can even use charm. Today, you don't toast women twice. Are they not offering their body at no cost? Some immoral and adulterous spirit now influences some. Men are now deadbeats. Before, we believed that, for a man to approach a woman or to chat, the man must be prepared and be composed, so he won't behave insanely in their presence, because there is something in them that controls them. A man says men have seven senses, while women have three, but one sense in a woman can control the three senses in a man. This phenomenon is false these days. Really, the love of money is the root of all this evil.
Let us trace the origin of this great downfall. A woman introduced the first sin on earth. How? When she became greedy, despite the wealth in the Garden of Eden, the woman desired the fruit (sin) before she was tempted. Her response to the tempter tells us that she is interested but pretending. She wasn't content with what she had. The bible said the fruit was good and one to be desired in her eyes. She did not oppose the tricks of the devil and his craftiness but allowed him to work over her intelligence. Men easily deceive women. Money, cars, wealth and promises confuse them. There's nothing in a man to deceive a woman or fool her; rather women have qualities to fool a man. Women don't know their value, unless they lose it.
Don't forget that anything evil has a secret behind its motive. The devil is responsible for this lost glory, from the beginning and today, so he will cause humans to offend God; today, he still uses women for his strategy. He actualizes this by promoting activities that encourage evil, like prostitution. Through indecent attire, sexy perfumes, pornography shown in the screen, paper, Internet etc., human beings will continue disobeying God, thereby inspiring God's wrath. All these have spiritual influence over a carnal person. Some are from environmental and territorial demons, while others could be in the school, offices, company, industry, church, and streets all over the globe.
The consequences for this lost glory are factual; some have been mentioned above. Women don't have regard, respect, value, and trust. Women can easily give up. Now, before a woman gets any appointment, she must first commit herself to evil, because they made it so. Most are used and later discarding; some are used for rituals and public shame. Some die after being misused or because of drug abuse and compromise. Some have developed sterility. Some are frustrated and abandoned, while others are broken hearted. Many married women don't have right in their homes; they are beaten and wounded. Women easily contract disease and die quickly, selling their destiny to the devil. Remember hellfire is still eternal. Some women hardly marry, which is some of the pride of a woman. An abandoned property is still an abandoned proper; no matter how it may look like, it has no value. If a woman eats the forbidden fruits, she has definitely lost her glory. With problems like infidelity, premarital pregnancy etc., a prostitute has hidden limitations in life. But, can such glory of a woman that was lost be restored? YES.
Any woman that wants to be what God made her to be and still be recognized as precious gold must work in the newness of life after her repentance from every dead work. In the beginning of this fall, God was automatically making a way for her to be restored. She needs to acknowledge her sins and confess them to Christ Jesus, her savior and not to any man, then asking for forgiveness, promising to forsake them all. As she surrounds herself with the will of God, God will make her a new person, and her old life shall never be recalled. Then, Christ will transform her old body into a new body and restore all that she had lost, making her a virgin again. This is real; God is ready to receive us as sinners, but we don't give him a chance. When this is done, she will then be such a model.
Women should be content with what they have. For nothing can be too much, and nothing can be too small .You don't need to compare yourself with anybody. The car, residence, or attire of another person may not fit you. Go look for what will fit you. God made everything that is as it pleases him and for his purpose. If you are not beautiful, you must be wealthy or brilliant. All fingers may not be equal, but all humans are equal because you may have what I don't have, or I may have what you don't have. Don't feel cheated by your lacks. They may lead you to what you dream to be. Your problem may be that you are yet to discover some or all your talents. Any woman, privileged or not, should not be hopeless and visionless. Your destiny is still unchanged, unless you change it. A mosquito can still be classified as an insect or a girl can still be a woman some other time. It is just a matter of time. The difference between today and tomorrow is time, for what must be, must be. It doesn't matter the circumstances before you. Remember every bridge must be crossed, every tree must be climbed, and every ocean must be swim.
Women should not be subjected to any man outside marriage and should not feel inferior before any man, though you shouldn't be arrogant and violent but avoid any appearance of evil. They shouldn't consider themselves as nothing or cheap before any wealthy or handsome man. Women are more costly than wealth. So, there is no need for a woman to stop for unnecessary calls or arrogant toasts. It doesn't show respect and regard. Why must a person that doesn't really appreciate what God made in you use you and abandon you? Why must you expose every delicate part of your body? Why must an employer visit your body before he offers employment? Why must you give yourself to advertisement media or any screen show? Is it better to give yourself to the devil or to God? If you give your totality to God, he will change every aspect of your life, though it may tarry, but patience is the key, since God cannot be unrighteous to give you wickedness.
Women should remember they are also God's image as a human. So if man has attractive things, a woman has more than them. The rat first attracted a hunter that set an attractive trap for a rat. You have some qualities that men don't have. So, why must you make yours cheap and easy. Women should not allow what happened to them in the beginning by the devil to repeat itself. They have rights in the community and the world at large. Why must you say yes to every man that is not your future? Giving every person attention is never the key to your success because when there are too many unripe mangoes in the basket, one might not know the very ripe mango amongst them. We don't mean class but your future.
Women should not kill the goose that will lay a golden egg. No circumstance lasts forever, and no condition is permanent. Don't lose your gold for a penny. As they say, "use what you have to get what you want”, or “heaven helps those that help themselves”, or use every opportunity to reach your dream. This language is absolutely wrong but comes from the pit of hell. What you have is not made