When passion and perseverance come together day after day, the indomitable will that results can provide an energy to go beyond former limits. Diana Nyad is a stunning example of this. She was sixty-four when she became the first person to swim from Cuba to Florida in 2013, succeeding on her fifth attempt, the fourth since she turned sixty. She swam one hundred and three miles, took nearly fifty-three hours and did it in shark-infested water without a protective cage. Nyad said to Dr. Sanjay Gupta on CNN: “You have a dream that doesn't come to fruition, and move on with your life. But it is somewhere back there. And then you turn sixty, and your mom just dies, and you're looking for something. And the dream comes walking out of your imagination.” While she was swimming, she got three messages: One is “never, ever give up,” two is, “you are never too old to chase a dream,” and the third was, “it looks like a solitary sport, but it's a team.”
Stories are wonderful vehicles for images, feelings, atmosphere, and depth because they lead the readers or the audience to identify with and learn from the characters. We begin with our own experience and make a connection; something rings true and illuminates something important that we didn't recognize before about ourselves. When it reflects a deep truth, this insight is liberating. My hope for this book is that readers will find soul nourishment to grow into the people they were meant to be. By readers, I mean male as well as female readers. The ability to imagine ourselves as the main character, or even as all the characters, in a story, with no consideration as to the gender of that character makes us aware of the universality of the masculine and feminine in us all. This ability lets us recognize the qualities that are human and not gender-based.
When you feel personal and archetypal traits together, when there is a connection between you and the story that holds your attention, when you realize a truth that you have not before seen, this is an aha! moment—a moment when an unacknowleged archetype comes to life. For women in whom traditional roles and archetypes like daughter, wife, and mother (Persephone, Hera, and Demeter) coincide well with their expectations, Atalanta/Artemis may stay dormant until that moment of truth. Similarly, a woman who has been an Artemis and never wanted to be a mother, may, in her late thirties or early forties, feel that she must have a child if the maternal archetype lays a claim on her psyche.
The stories about Atalanta exemplify archetypal qualities of Artemis as goddess of the hunt. There is, as well, the meaning of Artemis as goddess of the moon, which is an affinity for mystical and meditative experiences, a sensing of subtle energies, a capacity for inner reflection. This lunar aspect is in activists who are “closet mystics,” most recently attested to in Barbara Ehrenreich's Living With a Wild God (2014). Known for her books and essays about politics, economics, social class and women's issues, Ehrenreich wrote her unexpected memoir about mystical visions she had as a teenager, the extensive reading she has done since and the sense she makes of this personal reality as a scientist and atheist. Artemis is one of the three goddesses of the moon. She is the archetype of the waxing (or young and growing) crescent moon. Selene is the archetype of the full moon, while Hecate is the archetype of the waning crescent moon. In delving into these archetypes and their meanings, women can see and appreciate them as stages in themselves.
Artemis, Athena, and Hestia make up a second important trinity; they are the three Virgin Goddesses. As archetypes, they differ in attributes and values with one important quality in common: each has a one-in-herself inner core. Intelligent strategy is Athena's gift, introverted centeredness is Hestia's.
Atalanta and Artemis are the means through which readers can drop into their own depth psychology. There are many real-life stories of women in these pages, as well as mythological and fictional examples of women who are similar to Atalanta. If Artemis is a strong archetype in your psyche, you will see reflections of yourself and will value the indomitable qualities that have sustained you. You may also realize how you may need to grow. It may also be that you are someone who has imagined yourself in the stories about indomitable girls and women, but has kept this part of yourself under wraps. If so, perhaps this book—or a vivid dream, or synchronicity—may help you to realize that an indomitable spirit exists in you. And, with right timing and courage, you will be true to the Artemis in yourself.
Chapter One
Atalanta the Myth
Stories often change with the telling and the point of view of the storyteller. In Greek mythology, there were two versions of Atalanta's origins as a famous hunter from either Arcadia (as told by Apollodorus) or Boetia (as told by Hesiod). In Ovid's Metamorphoses, Greek myths were assembled and retold in Latin verse. I describe Atalanta as being from Arcadia because it is in this version that we get the account of her birth and how she was abandoned and suckled by a bear.
Atalanta is also mentioned as wanting to enlist with Jason and the Argonauts on their search for the Golden Fleece. She is refused because her presence as a woman among men would be disruptive—the same argument that was used to keep women from serving in the military until recently. This didn't stop Atalanta, however, as told by classical scholar Robert Graves (The Golden Fleece, 1944). Graves describes how, as the Argo casts off, Atalanta jumps aboard and, invoking the protection of Artemis (for her virginity), joins the heroes. In another vignette, when two centaurs try to rape her, she kills them with her arrows.
I have taken liberties as a storyteller to combine elements from separate myths in which Atalanta is mentioned, adding some embellishments. For example, when I tell how the bear finds her, I incorporate Bernard Evslin's version of how she and Meleager meet (Heroes, Gods, and Monsters of the Greek Myths, 1968). I tell of her return to Arcadia after the hunt for the boar to provide continuity between the hunt and the footrace. Here is the story as I tell it.
The Myth of Atalanta
In the kingdom of Arcadia, the king is eagerly awaiting the birth of his first-born. When the new baby proves not to be the son and heir he expects, he vents his anger on his unwanted daughter and orders a shepherd to take her to a nearby mountain and leave her there to die of exposure or an attack by a wild animal. Atalanta begins her life unwanted and rejected. But what was intended as the end of her life in fact turns out to be an unusual beginning.
The shepherd does as he is told. He takes the baby and places her among the rocks on the mountain. Atalanta wails; she is hungry, wet, and cold. Her cries attract a mother bear whose den is somewhere nearby. Whether out of curiosity or maternal instinct, the bear investigates and sniffs the baby. Atalanta grasps the fur of the bear and the human infant and mother bear bond. The mother bear takes the baby to her den, suckles her, and keeeps her warm. It was said that the goddess Artemis sent the bear.
Bear cubs are small and helpless when they are born. Like human babies, they cannot survive without maternal care. They grow to adulthood faster than human babies, however, so Atalanta is raised with a succession of cubs as siblings. In another version of the tale, when she is able to walk, she is found by hunters who raise her and teach her to hunt and speak.
Meleager
At about the same time that Atalanta is born, in the neighboring kingdom of Calydon, another king eagerly awaits the birth of his first-born. It is a boy! The son is named Meleager and his birth is greeted with festivities and celebration.
Shortly after Meleager is born, an unusual visitor—Atropos, one of the three Fates—calls upon Meleager's mother. A blazing fire heats the room in which the queen receives her guest. Atropos goes to the fireplace, stands on the hearth, and points to a log that is burning on one end. She says: “Do you