Sex For Dummies. Dr. Ruth K. Westheimer

More I Score, the More Pleasure I’ll Have The Sex Depicted in Porn Is True to Life The Grass Is Always Greener in the Neighbors’ Bedroom Sex Will Make Everything All Right A Good Lover Must Be an Open Book I Should Compare Sexual Partners I Can’t Become a Better Lover Lovers Want and Need the Same Things I’m Too Old to Have Sex Chapter 28: Ten Tips for Safer Sex Learn to Say No Limit Your Number of Partners Don’t Rely Solely on Your Instincts Never Dull Your Senses When You’re with Strangers Discuss Safer Sex in Advance Use Condoms Develop a Relationship Before You Have Sex Don’t Engage in Risky Behavior Don’t Forget about the Other STDs Don’t Sell Your Other Options Short Chapter 29: Ten Things Women Wish Men Knew about Sex Chivalry Isn’t Dead Yet Appearances Count You Can’t Hurry Love A Clitoris Is Not Just a Small Penis Women Need to Bask in the Afterglow Kinky Sex Isn’t Sexy Sex Wandering Eyes Mean Less Sex Slam-Bam-Thank-You-Ma’am Doesn’t Cut the Mustard Changing Diapers Is Sexy Just Because You Can’t Doesn’t Mean You Won’t Chapter 30: Ten Things Men Wish Women Knew about Sex Being Aware of Mixed Signals Lack of Sex Really Can Hurt Sometimes Wasting Electricity Is Okay Teamwork Is Important Celebrities’ Bodies Are Not a Threat A Little Tact, Please If You Really Loved Me, You’d … The Way to a Man’s Heart Is Not through His Stomach It Might Just Be Sex The Older a Man Gets, the More Help He Needs Chapter 31: Ten Tips for Truly Great Lovers Don’t Make Love on Your First Date Set the Mood as Far in Advance as Possible Find Out What Your Partner Needs Protect Yourself and Your Partner Don’t Fall into a Rut Fix the Potholes of Love Use Your Sense of Touch Become a Great Kisser Satisfy Your Partner Even If You Don’t Feel Like Sex Adjust to Changes Caused by Aging

      8  Appendix A: Step into My Office Baring All for the Sexual Status Exam Sex Therapists Give the Best Homework Finding a Sex Therapist Choosing a Sex Therapist

      9  Appendix B: Terrific Resources Counseling Sex Therapy Sexually Transmitted Diseases Sexual Orientation Sexuality and Family Planning Sexual Toys Protecting Children Support Groups Advice for the Disabled Sexual Assault

      10  Index

      11  About the Author

      12  Connect with Dummies

      13  End User License Agreement

      List of Illustrations

      1 Chapter 1FIGURE