4 Part 2: Doing It Chapter 9: Foreplay: Revving Up Your Engines Foreplay for Life Linking the Emotional to the Physical Setting the Stage Getting Physical Switching Gears: Engaging the Genitals Moving on to the Main Event Variety Is the Spice of Foreplay Chapter 10: Intercourse: Coming Together for the First Time What’s the Rush? Making Your First Time Special The First Time for Women The First Time for Men The First Time All Over Again Chapter 11: Changing Positions: Variations on a Theme The Good Old Missionary Position The Female-Superior Position Taking Her from Behind East Side, West Side, Side by Side Lap Dancing The Oceanic Position Standing Up Oral Sex: Using Your Mouth Anal Sex: Handle with Care Safe Sex: Playing Alone Together Sex During and After Pregnancy: Orgasms Are Okay, with Changes Chapter 12: Going for the Big O What Is an Orgasm, Anyway? Experiencing Orgasms: Differences for Men and Women Achieving Orgasm: Let Me Count the Ways Don’t Try — Let It Come. You’ll Be Glad You Did Putting on Your O-Face: Responding to the Orgasmic Experience The Best Reason to Have an Orgasm Chapter 13: Afterplay: Embracing the Moment Understanding the Importance of Afterplay Sharing the Moment The Simplest of Techniques Chapter 14: Spicing Up Your Sex Life Using Variety to Add Some Va Va Va Voom to Your Sex Life Expanding Your Toy Chest What If You’re Just Never in the Mood?
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Part 3: Different Strokes
Chapter 15: Enjoying Oral Sex
Overcoming Your Inhibitions
Leaving Him Breathless: What Men Like
Making Her Toes Curl: What Women Like
Dealing with Some Delicate Details
Assuming the Position
Addressing the Safety Issue
Chapter 16: Savoring Solo Play and Fantasy
Exploring the Mythology of Masturbation
Avoiding Too Much of a Good Thing
Masturbation: Good for All Ages
Masturbation Education
Fantasy: It’s All in Your Head
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