The care home staff are under so much pressure that they don’t have as much time to spend with us as they used to. I think the cuts to social care are a crying shame. Older people are an easy target, because once we reach a certain age, we’re hidden away out of sight.
Most of the old dears at my care home don’t get any visitors at all. That just breaks my heart. I’m lucky – I have a daughter who comes and sees me twice a week. She’s very good. But it’s very lonely getting older. I miss Eve, my wife, more than I can tell you. She died four years ago. Have I told you about her already?
Lovely Eric. He reminded me of my granddad, who I missed every day. When I was at university, Granddad had written to me every month or so, in wobbly, old-fashioned handwriting, telling me stories about his allotment and his cats, always slipping a ten-pound note into the envelope. I had usually been too busy getting drunk to write back. So I took extra care with my letters to Eric. I typed out the old lines about difficult choices and austerity, and then I asked him to tell me more about his wife, because I knew what it was like to be lonely. I caught myself thinking: At least he had a wife. And then I realized that being envious of a bereaved care home resident was taking self-pity too far, and decided to pull myself together.
I finished my letter and I was wrangling with the printer – usually you have to put the headed notepaper in face down, with the letterhead closest to the printer, but someone had fiddled with the settings – when I saw Owen heading to the kitchen for a coffee. I decided to corner him.
I glanced into the hallway to check that no one was about to interrupt our conversation and asked, ‘How long has it been since you had sex?’
Owen spends most nights gaming, and most of his lunch breaks reading comic books, and not a lot of time with members of the opposite sex. So I thought his response to my question would make me feel better. I was wrong.
He glanced at his watch. ‘Two and a half hours.’
‘You had sex this morning?’
‘That’s right.’ Owen crossed his arms and smirked.
‘No need to be so smug about it.’
‘But I am smug!’ said Owen. ‘Do you know how long it had been before I met Laura? Four years.’ He grabbed my arm and gave it a little shake. ‘Over four years. I hadn’t had a shag since I was twenty-four!’
I felt slightly better after that. ‘I haven’t had sex in three years.’
I could see Owen trying to arrange his face into an expression of sympathy. ‘Poor you,’ he said.
‘So. Who’s Laura?’
He shrugged. ‘We’ve been seeing each other for a few weeks.’
‘Great.’ I nodded and smiled, as convincingly as I could.
‘She does roller derby. She has tattoos all over her thighs.’
‘I don’t think I need to hear about her thighs,’ I said, lowering my voice as a group of Fast Streamers walked past the kitchen, speaking to each other in low voices as if they knew something we didn’t, which they undoubtedly did.
‘Sex is great,’ he said, smiling to himself in a way that let me know he was thinking about Laura’s thighs. Or what was between them. Grim. ‘I’d forgotten how good it is.’
‘All right,’ I said. ‘Don’t rub it in.’
The sex chat made us late to our team meeting. Owen and I huffed into the glass-walled meeting room, breathless, saying, ‘Sorry, sorry,’ as we sat down.
Tom didn’t look up. He had a very passive aggressive management style – that’s what I’d have liked to say in the annual Staff Engagement Survey, but our team was so small I thought he’d trace the feedback to me and passive-aggressively punish me for it. Probably by making me answer all the correspondence about Brexit.
There were three of us on our immediate team besides Tom: me, Owen and Uzo, who was smiling up at me kindly now. Uzo was always smiling at me kindly. She’d been working on the correspondence team for twenty years and had the least ambition of anyone I’d ever met. Whenever I messed up, she’d say things like, ‘Don’t worry, girl. You won’t care when you’ve worked here as long as me,’ and I’d go and quietly hyperventilate in the toilets. She did have a lovely collection of statement necklaces, though.
‘As I was about to say,’ said Tom, still not looking up, ‘they’re bringing in a new Grade Six.’
Owen and I looked at each other.
‘What, another senior manager?’ said Owen.
‘Yes, Owen,’ said Tom, smiling his tight smile.
‘Above you?’ said Owen.
‘Yes,’ said Tom, his smile tighter still. ‘Above me.’
‘But we thought you were going to be promoted,’ said Owen.
‘Yes, well. So did I,’ said Tom. He fiddled with his tie.
‘Fuck,’ said Uzo, which, to be fair, was what the rest of us were thinking.
‘And I have it on good authority that the new Grade Six is hardline on swearing in the workplace.’
‘Shit,’ said Uzo.
‘That was a joke,’ said Tom.
‘What’s his name?’ asked Uzo.
‘Her name,’ said Tom, ‘is Smriti Laghari. I’m pleased to see you were paying attention during unconscious bias training.’ Sarcasm was another of Tom’s management techniques.
Owen took out his phone and started Googling Smriti. ‘She’s with Private Office at the moment. Used to be a banker.’
Groans from around the table. Former bankers were the worst for trying to make the Civil Service more efficient, which often meant getting rid of people and cutting ‘luxuries’ such as having enough desks for people to sit at.
‘According to LinkedIn, her interests include Cardiff University, Pineapple Dance Studios and the London Amateur Violinists’ Network,’ continued Owen.
‘I can play the cello,’ said Uzo. ‘Maybe we could form a quartet. Ha!’
Tom closed his eyes a moment, as though trying to gather his strength. ‘It’s fine,’ he said. ‘We just need to cut down on the backlog before she gets here. Let’s show her what a brilliant, efficient team we are. Shall we?’
We stared at him. He had never used the words ‘brilliant’ or ‘efficient’ to describe us before. Nor, it’s safe to say, had anyone else.
It was dark by the time I left work. I called my mother as I walked down Victoria Street to the Tube, trying not to slip on the lethal rotten leaves that covered the pavement.
‘It’s me,’ she said, as she picked up.
‘I know,’ I said. ‘I called you.’
‘Oh, sorry. I’m a bit distracted. I’m on the computer, doing the Sainsbury’s shop. They have a very good offer on olive oil, if you need any.’
‘Thanks, Mum,’ I said, imagining her in the