“I pictured myself going through with it,” Tim said, “you know, parking my car in the garage with a hose running from the exhaust. I went to the hardware store one day and checked out furnace hoses. After I left class. After I left my fucking students. I held it in my hand, turning it over. It was that real to me, that close. I can’t even believe I’m saying this now. But you being a cop, I guess you’ve probably heard everything.”
“What pulled you back?” McKelvey said.
Tim shrugged. “Responsibility won out in the end,” he said. “I tried to imagine the impact on my class. I knew it was something that would stay with them forever, and it wasn’t fair. It’s hard enough to be a kid nowadays.”
“You’re right about that,” McKelvey said. “I wouldn’t be a kid today if you paid me. We used to spend all day out in the woods, shooting squirrels with a BB gun or breaking glass bottles with a slingshot. TV wasn’t even an option most of the time. You used your imagination. You found something to do, or your father’d put you to work. And everybody wore the same jeans and the same cheap runners. Now you got nine-year-old girls dressing up like pop stars…” And they drank in silence in one another’s company. McKelvey didn’t have many friends outside of work, because he got a feeling for people right away, looked into their eyes in ways that his wife could never appreciate, always picking apart their reactions or actions, judging, measuring. “Can’t you stop being a cop for one night?” Caroline would say. “Sometimes you treat our friends like suspects. Sometimes you treat Gavin like he’s a suspect.” He shivered now at the thought, and it stung. Remorse and regret.
“You’re okay now, though?” McKelvey said after a mouthful of beer.
“Oh sure, I’m a poster boy for mental health,” Tim said, and they laughed.
Tim drew the frothy head from his mug of draft beer. He was a tall man, with a thin, latent musculature, glasses with a modern dark frame, and sandy brown hair that was receding faster than its owner could likely accept. When the young man smiled, McKelvey thought he looked a little like the Hollywood actor Ed Harris. Seemed like the majority of men nowadays were going bald. Must have been something in the water or the milk, steroids or hormones or some other form of voodoo. Not that his own hair was showing any signs of disappearing. Even Hattie had once remarked that he had a beautiful head of hair for an older gentleman. For an older gentleman, that was the qualifier...
They watched the clientele ebb and flow. McKelvey remembered the times, when he was much younger, that Caroline had to call around to a series of neighbourhood bars just like this one in an attempt to locate him. McKelvey and his colleagues turning the after-work drink into a five- or six-hour run. Back when he was younger and unsure of what he was missing at home, all of them caught up in the male ego of it all, trading stories from the street, and the cigarettes and the laughs and the feeling that they were in a special club, the secret order of the brotherhood. Only a handful of the original crew were still ardent daily drinkers, unapologetic through three failed marriages and estranged children, and they wore the lifestyle on their faces. They were red-nosed and bloated, made old before their time. All young men break a few bones to learn their lessons, McKelvey thought. Takes us so much longer than our wives and lovers to learn to be still. How to pace the drinking, how to handle the testosterone and the anger and how to reconcile the day job with the home life. He understood that negotiations were required. The alternative was a life of lonely rooms and empty beds. Now it hardly seemed to matter.
McKelvey’s moment of peaceful reflection was torn when he looked up and saw that Tim was crying. Like a small child, his eyes watered, and a few plump tears streaked down his cheeks. There was no sound. A man crying, it was one of the worst things, one of the most difficult parts of McKelvey’s job, the crying and the crying. Suspects crying when they got pinched, begging and sobbing for just one more chance at freedom, crying until snot ran glistening from their noses. But the worst was the family of victims. It didn’t matter the cause, not initially at least. Vehicle accidents, murders, drownings, drug overdoses, it was all the same when you were standing on a front step with your hat in your hand. It made McKelvey’s stomach clench so that he couldn’t eat for an entire day after he delivered a Notification of Death—N.O.D. The cop’s worst task.
“What’s up, Tim? What’s up there, buddy?” he said. It didn’t matter what McKelvey said at these times, it always sounded foolish to his own ear, an actor reading lines.
“Oh god, I’m sorry,” Tim said. “I just get like this sometimes. It’s the beer, I guess.”
He wiped his nose and dried his eyes with a thumb.
“Listen, don’t apologize, man. It’s okay,” McKelvey said. “Just let it go.”
“I miss her so much,” Tim said, and now the tears resumed. “I keep getting to this place where it feels like maybe I could build a life again, you know? Maybe I could have a life again some day. Wake up without this weight on my chest, her name running through my head. I had everything, Charlie. I had the greatest love. We were going to have children...”
McKelvey gritted his teeth, frustrated by his own awkwardness. He felt he ought to do something. It was the same when Caroline cried or began to reminisce about Gavin as a child, and McKelvey saw himself standing there like a big dummy with his hands at his sides. He felt like a statue—or worse, a man dead from the neck down. It wasn’t enough that he possessed the genuine desire to do something, the innate reaction to reach out, to comfort. It wasn’t enough, and he knew it. His wife deserved more. She always did.
“I have moments where I forget,” McKelvey said, pushing the shadows from his mind. “I’ll be doing something, mostly at work, and my head gets buried in the little details. And then all of a sudden it’s like I’m coming up, breaking the surface, taking this huge mouthful of air. And that’s it, that’s when I realize that yeah, I had a son and he’s gone now...but I had a son. He was real...”
“Do you think it’ll ever get any easier?” Tim said, his red eyes searching.
McKelvey took the last mouthful of his beer. He held the beer in his mouth, buying a moment. It was dark draft, good and strong against his tongue. He felt he should tell this kid the way he saw it. Leave the lying to the grief counsellors and the facilitators like Paul up at the hospital group. Seven stages of grief? No, no. Grief was an onion. With each skin you peeled away, the thing just got softer, more delicate, and each layer burned your eyes a little more.
“No,” McKelvey said, “I don’t believe so.”
Tim’s face betrayed his surprise at McKelvey’s bluntness. As a young widower, Tim had grown somewhat used to everyone telling him things would get better, that it was okay to start dating again, that yes, despite mounting evidence to the contrary, life does go on.
“I didn’t mean to kick you in the balls there,” McKelvey said and chuckled to lighten the moment. “You asked me a question, and I’m too tired to bullshit.”
“No, no,” Tim said, “I appreciate your honesty. I’m not being facetious. I wanted to ask you that question in the meeting a few weeks ago, but you didn’t look like you wanted anybody to talk to you, to be honest.”
McKelvey said, “My wife says I look like that a lot.”
“Tell me something,” Tim said. “Why do women, good women, tolerate jackasses like you and me?”
Tim was on his second large draft beer, about two and a half pints’ worth, and McKelvey could see the man was not a heavy drinker. His eyes were already glazing over with that watery, faraway look. There was a time when McKelvey himself could have sat there and drunk six large draft beers then driven home—yes, driven, in spite of or perhaps because of the fact he was a cop—then crawled right into bed beside his already sleeping wife. Not every day, to be certain, but with enough