The Turning Point
45 Steps To Achieve Success
Ashok Kumawat
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Chapter 1
The beginning of life Desire
Our desire is the basis of our entire life. Our actions are decided on the basis of our desires.
Is not that the truth?
Let me give an example – if I want to get the highest marks in my class, what will I do? I will definitely study more.
Therefore, it is clear that our actions are done according to our wishes.
But it is not clear yet that desire is the basis of our whole life. Imagine a small plant drying up. But you immediately add water to that plant. After some time, the plant recovers and grows rapidly.
Did it start growing only by you watering the plant?
“No”
There was already a desire to live in that plant, so when you add water, the plant immediately absorbs it and continues its growth. If the plant had no desire for life, would it have survived its life?
Therefore, it is clear that desire is the basis of living life. Therefore, life does not exist without desires.
So will you get your destination just by wishing?
“No”
Hundreds of desires arise in you in your daily life. Are all those desires fulfilled?
“No”
but why?
Tell me one thing. Do you want to be rich Your answer is “yes”. So do you only want to be rich in this whole world? “No” |
In this world, billions of people want to become rich, but only few people can become rich. Some people have their wishes fulfilled.
Have you ever thought why only those people could succeed?
If you think carefully, you will find that you never get the destination which is not very important for you, while you definitely get that which is very important for you, for which you put full power.
A lot of desires arise in your mind in your daily life but it is not fulfilled as long as it is very important for you.
So it is clear that –
(1). To have a life it is necessary to have a will.
(2). To get to the destination, it is necessary for the desire to be important.
Chapter2
Goal Setting
Have you set your goal? If yes – then you can go to the next step mentioned in this book. If not – then stop.
Look around you. Every person is doing something to fulfill a purpose. Some are going to work to earn money, some are going to learn guitar and some are practicing singing songs. Every human has some purpose.
Look at your mother and father. Your mother is cooking for you because her purpose is not to starve. Your father is going on a job so that your needs can be met. Both of them are working so that they and you will be happy. They have a purpose to work.
Will they work if they have no purpose to work? – “No”
Therefore, understand one thing clearly that no work is done without any purpose. So, you have to make a clear goal right now.
How would you set a clear goal?
Let me help you. Tell me a little bit about what is the work that you get happiness after doing?
Sorry don’t tell me your qualification. I do not need it.
Let me give you an example.
Are you fond of singing? Or do you like to play guitar? Or are you fond of food? Or do you like watching videos? Or do you like watching movies?
It is also possible that if you like to do some other work, then you should keep the same in your mind.
Whatever work you like to do, you should make it your goal.
Wait. You are probably telling me that everyone loves singing songs and watching videos, it does not mean that everyone should become a singer (or something). And you are thinking that I do not even have the qualification to become a singer.
I want to tell you one thing clearly –
It is a little difficult to achieve the work which everyone likes, by making it their goal, but it is not impossible. You will have a very large competition field. But if you become a singer and your songs will reach many people – this will fulfill your two objectives – (1). You will earn a lot of money and (2). You will also get fame.
If you are thinking of qualification then you can achieve it even after your goals are set.
Did you tell me that “I am fond of eating”.
So make a product that you like very much and open a company that you will take to every corner of the world.
If you choose the target according to your interest, then you will always be happy while working.
Have you still not set your goal?
If you are not able to set your goal according to your choice, then let me see your qualification now.
Hmmm …
Your qualification is good, but it is the time of competition. Let me think a little…
If you have to set goals based on your qualification then think of these things –
(1). First of all, check what is the opportunity based on your qualification?
how will you do? – Using the Internet.
Now write them on a paper.
(2). Now write on the same paper how much money you need every month to be happy? Is it 1000 $? Is it 2000 $? Or a little bit more – $ 10,000? You have to write it clearly.
(3). Now determine the opportunity according to the amount of money you need.
(4). Have you got a clear goal? If yes – then try to achieve the same goal.
(5). “If not” – then create a new opportunity according to your desired amount. If your desired amount is large, then you must definitely create a new opportunity and you should also give jobs to other people.
Chapter 3
Take Action
Often people set their own goals but do not take action according to the goal and fail.
Let me explain a little bit. “A student has to become a topper” – that is what sets the goal. The goal of that student is clear. But will he become a topper?
That student will never become a topper unless he / she studies, i.e. he / she will not work according to his / her goal.
The goal of many students is to become a topper, but very few students are able to do this – because they work according to their goals.
Therefore, it is proven that until action is not associated with desire, success will not be achieved.
You have to take action according to your goal. For example, if you are hungry, it cannot be pacified by drinking water. You have to eat to calm the hunger. That is, whatever you want, you have to take action.
Hmmm …
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