Трудные диалоги. Что и как говорить, когда ставки высоки. Рон Макмиллан

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      Подробнее см. Кови С. 7 навыков высокоэффективных людей. М.: Альпина Паблишер, 2014. Прим. ред.

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      Notarius С. and Markman Howard, «We Can Work It Out-Making Sense of Marital Conflict» (New York: G.P. Putnam’s Sons, 1993), 20–22, 37–38.

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