We might say that disagreement is at the heart of democracy, both in the real world and as an ideal. Democracy is the proposal that a morally decent and socially stable collective life is possible among political equals who do not agree fully about how they should live together.
Now, disagreement in general presents problems. When we disagree with each other, we can’t get along, our plans get complicated, and sometimes even ruined. Disagreement also can escalate hostility, threaten friendships, breed contempt, and tear people apart. What’s more, where there’s disagreement there is also the acknowledgment that at least one party to the dispute must be wrong, and so, if the disagreement is pursued and resolved, someone will have to change their mind. We tend to not like changing our mind, and so earnest disagreement can prove psychologically costly. Even at is best, disagreement is risky.
Yet political disagreement – disagreement about the structure and aims of our collective life – presents an additional and distinctive problem, and it takes a little work to identify what it is. To begin, recall that political disagreements tend to have a certain depth in that they invoke conflicting judgments of value and meaning, views about what is good with respect to our collective life. Moreover, the stakes in such disagreements are frequently morally high in that the parties involved tend to see their own prevailing view as necessary for justice. Consequently, political disagreement often is engaged in among parties who see the opposition’s view as not merely flawed, inadequate, or suboptimal, but as positively wrong, possibly intolerable, and potentially disastrous. Putting these together, we can say that political disagreements are often engaged in among citizens who have a certain investment in seeing their own view prevail.
Next, remember that in a democracy, political disagreements always take place among political equals. No one simply gets to browbeat, harangue, lecture, or dictate to their fellow citizens – at least not about the political matters that face democratic decision-making. Rather, in interactions with our fellow citizens, we must manifest a due respect for their political equality. Even when we disagree with our fellow citizens about matters in which we are deeply invested, and even when we are inclined to regard our fellow citizens as invested in manifestly unacceptable alternative positions, we nonetheless must sustain our commitment to their political standing as our equals.
Maintaining this commitment often proves difficult, especially given that political disagreements frequently get heated. When we disagree over matters in which we are invested, it is all too easy to tar the opposing side with being depraved, incompetent, helplessly benighted, and incapable. When we regard others in this way, we grow to see them as something less than our political equals. They begin to appear to us as misguided underlings in need of a lesson, or, worse still, mere obstacles to be surmounted. Either way, we begin to abandon our commitment to their equality. If left unchecked, we begin to wonder why our political rivals are entitled to an equal say. In this way, although disagreement is central to the democratic ideal, it can thwart our fundamental moral commitment to the political equality of our fellow citizens. In short, democracy runs on political disagreement, but when political disagreement is poorly conducted, it can unravel democracy.
Hence the problem of political disagreement: how can we engage in real disagreement in ways that nevertheless manifest due respect for one another’s political equality? In order to address this problem, we need to devise an ethos that could govern political disagreements among citizens. To repeat, the rules of this ethos must permit real disagreement among citizens; we make no progress by simply stipulating that democratic citizens must always show deference to the majority, or decline to criticize those in power. Yet, as the function of this ethos is to preserve and manifest respect for the political equality of all citizens amidst real political disagreements, it must take the form of a moral requirement. That is, the norms governing political disagreement among democratic citizens must be such that, when someone violates them, she not only fails at appropriate engagement, she also fails at citizenship. We also can say that when a citizen exhibits a stable disposition to abide by democratic ethos in contexts of political disagreement, she thereby manifests civic virtue, the kind of virtue appropriate for a democratic citizen.
Civility in Political Disagreement
Our aim in this book is to identify the nature of proper political disagreement among democratic citizens. For simplicity’s sake, we will refer to the dispositions appropriate for democratic citizens engaged in political disagreement as the virtues of civility. Often, we will talk about civil political disagreement; sometimes we refer simply to civility. We will occasionally talk of a citizen’s duty of civility, which is the duty to cultivate and exhibit civility in contexts of political disagreement. We employ the term civility with some degree of trepidation, as it is freighted with associations that we reject. So a few preliminary marks about the term are in order.
As commonly used in talking about politics, the term civility denotes a mild or accommodating mode of behavior, and this includes a posture of politeness and a pacifying or gentle tone of voice. Civility in this sense is inconsistent with heated and exercised argumentation, loud speech, and expressions of antagonism of any kind. Accordingly, civility has been subjected to a good deal of forceful criticism among political thinkers. Taken in its usual sense, civility unduly favors the status quo by placing heavy burdens on those who feel most aggrieved by the way things are, and then privileges those who are already advantaged by the kind of upbringing and education that enables them to sustain a calm demeanor and tone of voice amidst conflict. Indeed, it is common among feminist political theorists to reject appeals to civility as inherently patriarchal, as condemning the excitability and emotionality that traditionally has been associated with women.
These objections to civility strike us as correct. And yet our view is that democratic citizens have a duty of civility when engaging in political disagreement. The apparent contradiction is dispelled by the fact that we use the term civility in a different sense than the one that is targeted in these criticisms. We do not contend that proper democratic disagreement requires citizens to always maintain a posture of calmness or politeness, or a pacifying and gentle tone of voice. Civil political disagreement is, after all, real disagreement. And so the heat and passion of disputes over things that matter are consistent with the kind of civility we are calling for. Citizens can be civil and yet raise their voices, engage in sharp or biting rhetoric, and adopt an antagonist posture toward others. Civility is a set of dispositions we bring to contexts of disagreement; it is not a requirement for resignation or conciliation. It’s not about being nice, it’s about disagreeing and arguing properly.
To be sure, the central aim of this book is to present a workable conception of civility. But to put things very roughly, civility is that set of dispositions that enable citizens to manifest their commitment to the political equality of their political opponents amidst political disagreement over matters in which they