BE ONE STEP AHEAD. Alym Narbayev

BE ONE STEP AHEAD

      Alym Narbayev

      © Alym Narbayev, 2020

      ISBN 978-5-0051-4927-5

      Created with Ridero smart publishing system

      «First they ignore you,

      then they laugh at you,

      then they fight you, then you win»

      Mahatma Gandhi

      Introduction

      Dear Readers! You have opened this book, so you want to change, you want to become better and achieve your goals. Napoleon once said: «Dream of the impossible – get the most». So dream, dear friends, and believe: you can do much more than you can imagine. You started reading the book, you are looking for ways to self-development, self-education, it means you have already stepped forward, it means you are already on the way and soon you will achieve a lot. I am sure that every person has talent, and only by working on yourself, diligently striving to achieve your goal, you can discover and develop your talents. This is not a magic book that will bring you your dream on a «platter». If you have a goal, then take action, because the result depends only on you. Your dreams will come true if you put in the effort. Walt Disney once said: «If you can dream it, you can do it». I am sure that you, my dear reader, are a purposeful person and will definitely achieve your goal. The book is intended for those who have big plans and goals for the future, but lack the motivation to take the first step towards success; it will help you start to respect yourself; understand that we shouldn’t be interested in anyone’s opinion, except for our own; that in this world nothing is impossible for us. I don’t even know what made me write this book. I just wanted to write it. As Toni Morrison said: «If there’s a book that you want to read, but it hasn’t been written yet, then you must write it». From the bottom of my heart, I want this book to be useful for you, so that in it you will at least find something for yourself. I didn’t write too much, I wrote only the most important things. It is very important for me that this book helps at least someone to achieve success. Never lose faith in yourself, you are the best, there are no obstacles for you, there will be difficulties, but you will cope with them. Work on yourself, improve, learn something new, try to do what no one has tried before, don’t set boundaries for yourself, open new paths, make mistakes, fall and get up again. Trust me, now is the time. It doesn’t matter how old you are now, if you have a desire, then you will definitely succeed! Live life to the fullest, dream and make your dreams come true. You have only one life, and you won’t even notice how it goes. Therefore, live in the present here and now, without postponing anything for later. Remember: nothing changes if nothing is changed. And only you can change your life for the better. If you have any goals achieve them and be happy. If you’re interested further, I’ll tell you more.

      Take and do it!

      Are you tired? Don’t feel like doing anything? There is an exit! Try to get rid of your laziness. If you can’t help yourself, then no one will do it for you. You set yourself a goal so reach the point. Here is one great quote from a book by the American writer Zig Ziglar: «You don’t have to be great to start, but you have to start to be great». Find the strength to start. Prove that you can do this first to yourself, not to anyone else. Take your life into your own hands. Every time when you want to give up, repeat to yourself: «I can. I will do. I will achieve», «No one can stop me». Work hard. Don’t put limits on yourself. Go beyond your capabilities. Don’t stop there. Work on yourself. Never give up. Don’t be afraid to make mistakes. Making mistakes is invaluable experience. I understand that sometimes it’s just lazy, you don’t want to do anything or you are busy with something else, but you don’t do what will lead you to your dream. But imagine how happy you would be if you had already received what you want. So what’s up? What prevents you from achieving what you want? Of course, there will always be difficulties and obstacles. But they don’t need to be avoided. Do you want no mistakes, no difficulties? Cannot be! Difficulties are part of your goal. And the more difficulties you overcome, the more valuable your victory will be. If you want to get more, you have to do more. Do something every day that brings you closer to your goal. Over time, this will become a habit for you. Here is one very interesting parable (I don’t know who the author is), called «The Greatest Wisdom»: One night in the province where the monastery was located, there was a heavy snowfall. In the morning, the disciples, literally walking up to their waist in snow, gathered in the meditation hall. The teacher gathered the students and asked: «Tell me, what do we need to do now?» The first disciple said: «It is necessary to pray for the thaw to begin». The second one suggested: «You need to wait in your cell, and let the snow go its own way». The third said: «The one who has learned the truth shouldn’t care whether there is snow or not». The teacher said: «Now listen to what I’m going to tell you». The disciples prepared themselves to listen to the greatest wisdom. The teacher looked around them, sighed and said: «Shovels in your hands and go!» Morality: Don’t forget what really works – the action! You see, dear friends, sometimes you have to stop inventing something. We need to start acting, this is the only way to solve the problem. As the American businessman Robert Kiyosaki said: «Your „I don’t want“ is the key to success». Therefore, friends, don’t be lazy, you must strive diligently to achieve great success!

      You cannot? Learn it!

      Have you heard that human capabilities are endless? A person can learn anything! Don’t believe me? So let’s check it out. Just first decide what you want, what you really need to learn. You have to completely immerse yourself in it and with pleasure, with great passion and desire to achieve what you want. You will not even notice how you become a professional in your field. And still, don’t stop there. Set new goals and achieve them too! After all, this is what life is interesting. Learn throughout your life. And stop feeling like a loser who constantly fails. Your failures will give you invaluable experiences that no one else has. Believe in yourself, work on yourself and improve. Then you simply cannot avoid success. The main thing is not to waste your precious time. Make the most of your free time. But, as Thoreau said: «It’s not enough to be busy; so are the ants. The question is: what are we busy about». Therefore, dear readers, do what is in your soul, what you like, what brings you closer to your dream. It’s never too late to learn. Constantly learn something new. There is always something that wouldn’t hurt to learn, if only there was a desire. So if something doesn’t work out for you – don’t despair! Calm down, rest, find what the problem is and get back to work. Everything will definitely work out, it can’t be otherwise, don’t hesitate. Just keep doing what you think is right.