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Автор: Julia Neuberger
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a similar kind of recognition, and equal opportunities for social contact and meeting people. A great deal of this goes on already, but there needs to be much more if we are going to provide the kind of social care an ageing population requires. It does not have to be useful in the strictly utilitarian sense, but it does have to be useful to the person who does it. And, as the National Trust does so well, it has to have recognition and status.

       A massive opening up of public services by inviting in tens of thousands of older volunteers. They will be the driving force that humanizes them, makes them effective and making sure that older recipients of care get the kind of humane service that they deserve. The way this can be done is to expect former hospital patients, for example, to play their part after they have been discharged, as part of a wider support network, checking up on patients who have been discharged, or engaged in other vital forms of outreach. What can be done in the NHS can be applied to other public services too, especially if the role of health centres and schools – even perhaps police stations – could be expanded to reach out into the local community and match surrogate grandparents with younger families and children who need them.

      Notes

      Chapter 2

       Chapter 3

       Don’t take my pride away

      End begging for entitlements

      We’ve been together now for forty years, And it don’t seem a day too much.

      Opening lines of the popular song ‘My Old Dutch’, sung at the poorhouse gates where the performer is about to be separated permanently from his wife

      While I don’t have a problem getting out of the house, it’s hard to find somewhere affordable to go. The cost determines what you can do. I’d like to go out more but I can’t afford to. If I can’t afford something, I just don’t have it. Things aren’t always easy, but you get through. I’m not defeatist – I can cope with most things … The only thing I can’t cope with is missing the wife.

       Gerald Williams, 70s, quoted in Help the Aged Spotlight report

      It is a good quarter century ago since I first got a wake-up call about some of the difficulties older people have with money, but it still feels shocking even now. I was a rabbi in Streatham at the time, and there was an older woman whom I came to know, who had been pretty confident and adept at making the benefits system work when I first knew her. Then she had a particularly nasty episode of mental illness, and when she had recovered she found enormous difficulty summoning up the gutsiness she needed to deal with the benefits office. She couldn’t bear to go there by herself, so I went with her as her rabbi. As extra comfort, she also brought along her dog.

      The dog was the first problem: the benefits staff were very difficult about her bringing it in. But there then followed the most extraordinary, frustrating and undignified interview. The benefits officer kept asking her for evidence to prove who she was. This was particularly peculiar because I was there to vouch for her, and I had brought my passport to prove who I was. But the real point was that not only was she well known to the system, but this benefits officer actually knew her.