But the most striking thing about the GIs’ meals was the sheer size of them – a single plateful might constitute half a week’s rations in England, and they often left much of their food uneaten. Sylvia felt guilty as she threw away plates full of perfectly good food, aware of how much her mum struggled at home to feed the family.
The GIs were keen to chat to her as she worked. ‘Hey, beautiful, don’t forget my plate!’ one called out. ‘Aw, honey, why don’t you come sit down with me?’ shouted another.
At first Sylvia blushed shyly at their remarks, but after a while she got used to laughing them off like the other girls did. She remembered what she had been told about giving the men a warm welcome, and when they wanted to talk to her about their homeland she was a willing listener. One young man told her about living in North Dakota, where it snowed for six months of the year. Another described growing up in sophisticated San Francisco, while a third, from Arizona, told her all about life on the border with Mexico.
Sylvia loved to hear their tales of America, and she could see it helped them too. Beneath the bravado and charm, they were lonely young men in a strange country, far from their families and facing an uncertain future. They knew they hadn’t been sent to England just to have a good time – one way or another they were preparing for an invasion of the Continent, which they described rather poetically as ‘the far shore’. Sylvia knew there would be dark days ahead for many of the men in the room, but in the meantime, the least she could do was keep their spirits up.
As she worked, she began humming along to the music issuing from the jukebox. Her dad had always described American music as ‘twaddle’ when it came on the wireless, but Sylvia loved the swing sound of Glenn Miller and his ‘Chattanooga Choo Choo’, and soon she was singing her heart out.
With Sylvia volunteering at the Washington Club, her mother became worried that she would be pursued by GIs. Like many parents, she was distrustful of the Americans, who had quickly gained a reputation for being ‘overpaid, oversexed and over here’. She knew her petite blonde daughter, with her big blue eyes and hourglass figure, would be sure to attract their attention.
Mrs Bradley was extremely protective of Sylvia, and had already had to fend off the advances of several local boys. When she was fourteen, a boy Sylvia had known since childhood had suddenly come to see her in a new light. Arthur was eighteen and already a pathfinder in the RAF, and his parents were friends of the Bradleys. When both families were in The Castle pub one night, he asked if he could walk Sylvia home. ‘All right, but you better behave yourself,’ her mother replied.
When they reached the doorstep, however, Sylvia’s beau went in for more than a peck on the cheek. They were necking away, when she suddenly felt Arthur’s hand wandering over her breast and pulled away in shock.
‘You might be a pathfinder in the Air Force, but you ain’t making no paths over me!’ she said, rushing into the house and slamming the door.
Mr and Mrs Bradley returned from the pub a few minutes later. ‘Mum, that Arthur just tried to touch me on the chest,’ Sylvia said.
‘Oh, he did, did he?’ Mrs Bradley replied, her eyes flashing. She took an umbrella and went straight out onto the street. Arthur was still walking up the road, and she ran after him.
‘Oi!’ she shouted. ‘You keep your hands off my Sylvie!’
Arthur didn’t have a chance to turn around before the first blow of the umbrella landed on the back of his head. He put his hands up to shield himself as a second, third and fourth blow followed, and began running away as fast as he could, never to darken the Bradleys’ door again.
When Sylvia started at the American Red Cross club, her mother insisted on sending her into town armed with a cigarette and a box of matches with which to defend herself from unwanted attention. ‘If one of them Yanks tries it on, just light the ciggie and stub it out on his hand!’ she instructed her.
Since Sylvia didn’t have occasion to use the cigarette, after a while it fell to pieces in her handbag, and when her mother discovered this she came up with a new plan. ‘Here’s the pepper pot,’ she said. ‘If a bloke starts getting funny, throw some in his face.’
‘Yes, Mum,’ said Sylvia, hoping she would never have to resort to a pepper attack.
Despite Mrs Bradley’s efforts, Sylvia was soon dating GIs. The first one to take her out was a shy, lanky young man with blond hair called Melvin Anderson – ‘Andy’ – who hailed from Eureka, California. She spotted him gazing adoringly at her from his table as she was singing along to the jukebox, and when she came over to collect his glass, he told her admiringly, ‘You’re so full of life!’
‘Um, thank you,’ Sylvia said, laughing at the strange compliment. He was softly spoken and a little reserved – nothing like most of the Americans who came into the club. She didn’t have the heart to turn him down, so she agreed to accompany him to the movies the following night.
He turned up to meet her outside the Piccadilly Hotel clutching an enormous bunch of flowers and a box of chocolates. Sylvia had never been given presents by a man before. I’m living the high life now! she thought, as she breathed in the sweet smell of the flowers. The GIs were rich by English standards, since even the privates earned almost five times the salary of their British counterparts, and they could afford to flash the cash on dates. Like most Americans, Andy also made an impression with his impeccable manners and gentlemanly behaviour, which compared to her experiences with English boys made her feel like a queen.
But however courteous Andy was, Sylvia knew her mum wasn’t going to be happy at the idea of her dating a Yank. ‘I want you to bring him home so me and your dad can meet him,’ Mrs Bradley demanded. ‘A mother’s got a right to know what sort of fella her daughter’s associating with.’
‘Yes, Mum,’ Sylvia replied, dreading what her mum would make of poor Andy.
As she opened the door to the young GI, Mrs Bradley eyed him suspiciously.
‘Evening, ma’am,’ Andy said, taking off his hat. ‘Thank you for welcoming me to your home.’
Sylvia could see her mother was disarmed by his politeness, and tickled by his use of the word ma’am.
‘Good to meet you, sir,’ he added, shaking Mr Bradley’s hand.
Sylvia’s younger sisters, Audrey and Enid, sniggered at Andy’s funny accent. ‘Don’t you be rude to our guest,’ Mrs Bradley chastised them. ‘Andy, why don’t you come and sit down?’
She led him into the kitchen, where she was laying out the dinner.
They sat down to eat and Andy complimented Mrs Bradley on the food, while she started asking him all about his experience of being in England with the US Army. Sylvia was surprised to see that, in the presence of the handsome young man in uniform, Mrs Bradley became increasingly girlish and giggly, fluttering her eyelashes like a woman twenty years younger.
The longer they chatted, the more her mother seemed to be enjoying herself, and Sylvia found she was barely getting a word in edgeways. ‘Oh, this takes me back, Andy,’ Mrs Bradley told the embarrassed young man. ‘Do you know, I went out with a couple of Australian soldiers in the last war. One of them took me to a dance at the barracks and I was wearing my long knickers – which I made myself, you know – and we were dancing the Gay Gordons when the string on my knickers broke! Here I am, hopping around, and my bloomin’ knickers fall down! I just stepped out of them, rolled them up, stuck them under my arm and carried on!’
Andy’s tears of laughter only encouraged Mrs Bradley, who spent most of the rest of the evening regaling him with tales of her youth.
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