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Автор: Лорен Розенфилд
Издательство: Манн, Иванов и Фербер
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Жанр произведения: Личностный рост
Год издания: 0
isbn: 978-5-00057-774-5
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на слова Аристотеля: «Целое больше, чем сумма его частей». Прим. перев.

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      Принцип «жестокой любви» обычно применяется по отношению к больным алкоголизмом и наркозависимым. Он основан на том, что родственники таких людей не должны потакать их требованиям и уметь говорить им «нет», даже если в краткосрочной перспективе это кажется жестоким поступком. Прим. ред.

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