Невидимые шрамы. Как распознать психологическое насилие и выйти из разрушающих отношений. Шеннон Томас. Читать онлайн. Newlib. NEWLIB.NET

Автор: Шеннон Томас
Издательство: Издательство АСТ
Серия: New Psychology
Жанр произведения: Социальная психология
Год издания: 2016
isbn: 978-5-17-135959-1
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      Абьюзом принято называть отношения, в которых один из партнеров нарушает личные границы другого, унижает его, ведет себя жестоко. Цель агрессора (абьюзера) – подавить волю жертвы. В таком типе отношений партнеры никогда не меняются местами, а жертва по некоторым причинам не может из них выйти. Психологический абьюз – форма насилия, включающая в себя шантаж, угрозы, различные манипуляции как в явной, так и в скрытой форме.

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