Жизнь после утраты: Как справиться с горем и обрести надежду. Рэймонд Моуди

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      J. A. Astin, E. Harkness, and E. Ernst, “The Efficacy of ‘Distant Healing’: A Systematic Review of Randomized Trials,” Annals of Internal Medicine 132 (2000): 903–910; W. B. Jonas, “The Middle Way: Realistic Randomized Controlled Trials for the Evaluation of Spiritual Healing,” Journal of Alternative and Complementary Medicine 7 (2001): 5–7.

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      L. Dossey, “Immortality,” Alternative Therapies in Health and Medicine 6 (2000): 12.

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      Пер. с англ. Якова Фельдмана.

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      Джон Боулби, психиатр, бывший президент Международной ассоциации детской психиатрии, провел масштабные исследования и опубликовал крайне важные открытия в области человеческой привязанности и горя. Если вы хотите узнать больше об этой теме, особенно рекомендуем его книгу Attachment and Loss, том 1: Attachment (2-е изд., 1982) и том 3: Loss: Sadness and Depression (1980). (На русском языке выходили его книги «Привязанность», «Создание и разрушение эмоциональных связей».)

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