She reaches across the table and takes my hands. "Let me tell you something about love. It's not about finding someone you can live with, but finding someone you can't live without."
Once again, parents can sometimes simplify things. It makes perfect sense.
"Could you live without Ryan?"
"No way, Mom."
I decide to do a little damage control and stop by Ryan's dorm room with a small peace offering. Even though Mom says I've done nothing wrong and it wasn't my fault, I know I've hurt him. The kind of hurt that doesn't go away quickly, and I know how fragile a guy's ego can be, even a self-confident guy like Ryan. I've got a box of red velvet cupcakes, his favorite, from Roxanne's family bakery. Just as I'm about to knock on the door he comes up behind me, dripping with sweat, carrying a gym bag.
"Hey, Sparks, good timing."
He didn't call me Jillian. Maybe he's not mad anymore.
I lean forward and give him a quick kiss. "Brought you a present." I hand him the box and he smiles as he sees it's from the bakery.
"Thanks. You didn't have to do this. I'm okay."
"I don't need a reason to do nice things for the man I love. So, you and Jake been playing racquetball?"
"We're playing later today. I joined the campus health club. It's free to students and you get a personal trainer for your first visit."
I scrunch up my face. "Isn't racquetball enough exercise for one day? Since when are you a gym rat?"
He opens the door to the room, holds it for me and I walk inside. "Racquetball is a great workout, but I wanna get strong. I started lifting weights. Trainer says I could add ten pounds of muscle since I'm only one-seventy. I started boxing classes as well."
Oh, crap. I know what this is about. When it comes to men everything boils down to that "size matters" bullshit. He saw me with a guy who's a lot taller and bigger than him and built like a comic book superhero. "I don't suppose this has anything to do with what happened the other night."
"I just thought it was time to tone up. You know. Get buffed. For you."
"Uh-huh." He moves inside and I close the door behind him. He puts his gym bag away, grabs a towel, and wipes his face. "Ryan, look at me."
He turns to face me. "What?"
I move forward and take his arms. "You don't have to change a thing for me. You're perfect the way you are."
"You're only saying that because you love me."
I shake my head and exhale in frustration. "Does the stupidity of what you just said even register in that head of yours?"
"What? It's true. You don't want to hurt my feelings because you love me."
I look to the side and do my anchorwoman voice. "Let's recap that last idiotic statement for those of you who just tuned in." I turn back to him and tap him on the head with a knuckle. "Hello! McFly! What were those last three words you said? Huh?"
"You love me."
"Now, would you like to go for Double Jeopardy where the scores can really change? Maybe if you focus on those three words you'll realize I say things to you because they're true. Because I love you. So yes, you're perfect for me. I thought of you that way before we started dating. You're a six-foot hunk without an ounce of fat, and I oughta know because I've conducted a thorough search. You don't have to get all musclebound because I'm already yours and you have a hammerlock on my heart that no one is going to break."
"I wanna be strong for you. Be able to protect you."
Damn. Guys just don't get it.
I snake my arms around his neck and give him a soulful look. "Ryan, there's more to being strong than just physical strength, which, I might add, you already have. You've been my emotional rock since I've known you. I never had a father and you always protected me and took care of me, even when we were little. I've always been able to lean on you. And, in case you've forgotten, you almost gave your life to save me a few months ago. Which was the second time you nearly died for me. I couldn't find a stronger guy than you if I tried."
He grows a hangdog look and his face drops.
"This is about what happened at the dance, isn't it?" I ask.
He nods, still looking at the floor. "I was, you know, feeling a little…inadequate."
I take his chin and lift it so he's facing me. "Stop it. Stop it right now, young man. There's nothing inadequate about you. Any girl would be thrilled to have you and I'm incredibly lucky to be that girl."
"I just…felt like such a shrimp next to him."
I roll my eyes. "Obviously you're not getting my point. You talk to Jake a lot, right?"
"Yeah."
"And in case you hadn't noticed, he's got an amazon girlfriend who towers over him and yet is madly in love with him. She doesn't think he's a shrimp. Hell, she wears four inch heels around him. She's proud to be seen with him."
"Yeah. I guess."
"You guess? For God's sake, Ryan, I love you! Do I have to have sex with you to prove it?"
"No, of course not. We agreed to wait."
"Good, because you shouldn't need it to know how I feel. What happened the other night wasn't me."
"Deep down I know that, Sparks. But it's still hard to compete with a guy like that."
Roxanne's bite of bagel nearly falls out of her mouth as she looks at Trip sitting down at the opposite end of the coffee bar. "That's the guy you made out with?"
I take a look and nod as I sip my coffee. "Yeah. Trip Logan."
"Yowza. Damn, Jillian, at least the dream weaver has good taste. I'm not sure I'd wanna wake up."
"Down, girl. You're still taken, remember?"
"I know, but geez, he looks computer generated. You basically had a fantasy come true and got a get out of jail free card."
"Doesn't make me feel any better about it. And I didn't get away free. It really hurt Ryan. He's still upset."
"Hell, I don't blame him. The equivalent would be me seeing Jake making out with a supermodel."
"And get this…Ryan joined the health club. Started weight training and boxing lessons."
Rox shakes her head and rolls her eyes. "If men have one common denominator, you just found out what it is."
I take a quick look at Trip, who is busy reading a book. "That's not the only thing bothering me, Rox." I lower my voice to a whisper. "I…uh…can't stop thinking about it. Me and Trip, I mean. What happened the other night is stuck in my head."
"I wouldn't be able to forget either. But as long as you're just thinking, you won't need to go to confession."
"It's not just that he's incredibly hot. Remember when you went out last year with that football player?"
"The crash test dummy? Yeah, what about it?"
"Remember how you didn't feel anything? Well, this was different. I felt something with Trip I never felt with Ryan."
"That's 'cause you were dreaming. Or thought you were."
I shake my head. "No, no, there was something else. We were, I don't know, it was like we were connected on a different level. There was an electricity about it, like we were meant to be together."
"Jillian, stop it." She stares at Trip over her coffee cup, then turns back to me. "You caught the sexual brass ring for a couple of minutes, that's all. You're acting like a man."
"What do you mean by that?
"You're thinking with the wrong head." She looks at Trip again. "It will pass."
"She