I’ve heard many times that money can’t buy you everything, I actually believe it can. I would ask what can’t it buy? They would respond love and happiness. Actually money can buy happiness, just temporarily, sooner or later you’ll get used to having everything you want, or lose all of your money. Love can technically be bought, bitches be loving that money. Men and women love someone with money for that sense of security and the belief that they can have anything in the world, and they would love you for that. Dating costs money too, but is it really worth it, you’ll have to wait and see. You will need money to have a family since you have to pay to keep your kids when they are born. You will also need a house and a car, which you need good credit from spending money and paying them back on time, especially paying off any debts that you have as soon as possible.
Money will come and go, you will make some and lose some, just try to make it legally. I wanted to be a doctor or a lawyer for money, since it’s honest work with lots of money, just don’t make any big mistakes. If you’re money hungry, then you can work your ass off which is not really healthy but it’s possible just not comfortable. Invest if you can, just be careful it will fluctuate at times, just be patient. Don’t be so greedy, but save it so that you have enough for your future.
Attitude
Maintain your attitude, you have control over it mostly, times can and will get tough when you can snap on people. I have snapped many times on people when I should not have, mainly when I worked in retail, people can be annoying, obnoxious and just plain cheap as hell. I’ve tried to control myself, but I had to release on people at times because someone has to do it.
People always tell me to be respectful to strangers, which I thought when I was younger, you told me not to talk to strangers. As adults we have to, so that makes us age into hypocrites which is not that big of a deal. Sometimes people get on your nerves, and you want to defend or fight back, but you can’t because repercussions can occur and you could possibly lose with that attitude.
Work requires you to be professional to your fellow staff members and customers or clients, remember that you work for the money, nothing else really. Lots of people like when you kiss their ass with kindness, help them if they have a question and if you don’t know the answer, direct them to someone that does, it’s not hard. Now of course, if you don’t like your job, it’s better to find another and quit, or deal with it until you do find another job. Just remember, it’s all temporary.
If you had a bad day prior to going to work, don’t take it out at work, when it’s not their faults, unless you work with someone that you had disagreements with before you got to work. But, you still should not argue or fight at work, just move on, life’s too short to keep those grudges over stupid things. Now if you had a car accident or a ticket before you got to work, it is really frustrating, don’t concentrate on it, focus on your work for the day. Remember it’s not the end of the world, it can all be resolved. The same with school, school can get annoying too but it’s only temporary, it will end soon.
When you go to a store or an arena, try not to yell or complain so much when something is not present because it may have been sold out. In an arena, people may act badly when going to their seat and the usher or person who checks tickets will try to help you to your seat, you should not snap when they are trying to help. Honestly, it’s never ok to show your attitude to people who are just doing their jobs because who had a bad day. Even if you're a scumbag who treats everyone like shit because you think that you are hot shit, millennials would understand that, basically meaning you’re golden, which no one is ever.
Now in other situations such as birthdays, weddings and funerals, your attitude should be different, just act different, pretend. I always believed that anyone can act, talent is not required, even if you want to be an actor, you just need to pretend you're someone else and memorize your lines, pretty simple. You should act at least happy in weddings and birthdays, it’s a celebration for whom ever you went to celebrate. Funerals, you should act sad because someone is gone forever, maybe you didn’t know them, but show some respect and sympathies towards it. That should make you appreciate life more or want to live as long as the person that died if they were old.
Having a good attitude can actually help in life. I have known people who consistently smile every single time I see them, they look at life in a better way and try to stay positive. Everyone has problems in life, how you deal with it is up to you, but you should not show it to everyone, just keep calm and carry on.
Keep a good attitude and everything will be ok. Everyone has issues and they deal with it. Life is glorious to have and hold, and what will come in the future can be exciting and wonderful. Stay strong and move on, life is tough for everyone not just you, put on a fake smile for a while, and continue living your life, everything in the long run will be fine, or perhaps better.
Manners
People should always be polite to one another. That is how a civil life and relationship could stand. Now children now in days may be or may not be as polite and have manners as before, but based on my observations, I believe that they do.
Now in life we need to be able to communicate with people in a polite matter so that people would want to continue to work, see, or talk to you. People don’t really like a scumbag in their presence. I get that we don’t like people like that, but you have to understand why they are like that. Maybe they were hurt a long time ago, or not loved enough by their parents and others, or without parents, which means that they have no guidance and were not taught properly. Those need to adapt and change their behaviors, or else no one would want to talk to you or be around you. If you are having a bad day, don’t take it out on the people who’s not at fault.
Now to me, kids are well behaved, at least the ones I know. Now I don’t know many kids, but I do see some at times and I see how they behave and how polite they are to others, but that is because of who their parents are. The parents teach the kids, no kid is born bad, they become bad because of the influences they get from people close to them and sometimes others as well.
One funny thing to me, is when a child is acting like an ass, and his mother tells him stop, then she is a total bitch to others, so hypocritical. Just about everyone has witnessed something like that, and you think to yourself that if the child is such a shit, what is the mother like and you see and put 2 and 2 together, and figure it out. When the child is acting like that, the mature parent is supposed to control and calm the child, not be a bitch about it.
I was a bad kid when I was younger, I always wanted to pick a fight with someone, then cry when I get knocked down. I was very annoying and annoyed people like crazy, and kept going when they said stop. I was a bully up until the 2nd semester of the 3rd grade. I learned that my behavior and actions were stubborn and cowardice, I fixed myself up and now i’m told by many people that i’m one of the nicest person that they have ever known, which is a fantastic compliment to receive by people. You should try your best to have that as well.
We should all be polite to everyone, no matter who they are, and if they are not polite, then just move away from them so that they don’t offend you or spoil your day. We have these kind of people, and they are everywhere. Now i’m not saying to tuck your shirt in, pick your pants up, stand and walk straight, make your bed, brush your teeth, wash your hair, or place napkins all over yourself when you eat, that’s all up to you, i’m saying respect everyone and showcase yourself as a nice, friendly person, or be alone all of your life.
Patience
In life we need patience, we all are patient in