Secret to Attracting Woman: How to Meet Your Perfect Girl and Make Her Beg to Be Your Girlfriend. Pamela JD Paul

      You have to pinpoint your strong points and your weak points. You have to know what type of person you are and who you most likely fit well with.

      It’s good to be physically attractive but if you want a life long partner, your personality is going to get you into the long term relationship.

      Note that attraction has nothing to do with your looks, your money, or image. If a woman was to base her relationship with you on that then your relationship with her will not last for a very long time.

      Also, your image doesn’t explain the full story to your partner. She is going to eventually figure out the type of person that you are so don’t try to play it cool only for you to disappoint her later on.

      Don’t try being an obnoxious, arrogant jerk either. There’s a popular saying that if you’re a jerk then girls will like you.

      It doesn’t actually work that way. The statement is more like, “You’re lacking what most jerks have.” When a woman says that she wants a nice man, she literally means it.

      However, what she wants and what she naturally wants are two different things. It’s like a woman expecting you to like her when you don’t. Likewise, a woman isn’t going to like you if she doesn’t feel attracted to you. It’s common sense.

      Women are complex creatures. It’s been stated and accepted. If you haven’t noticed, women are usually around men who tend to be more outgoing then men who are shy and quiet.

      That’s because women likes to have fun. That doesn’t necessarily mean that they are a party animal.

      It just means that they want to relax and express themselves without having to act serious all the time.

      Quiet and shy guys tend to stop a girl from acting free because it can ruin the mood between both parties.

      This is why the quiet ones tend to be more of the friend than the boyfriend. This is probably the number one reason as to why “nice guys tend to finish last.”

      There isn’t anything wrong with being the nice guy. Girls tend to feel more comfortable being around nice guys more often because they can be trusted compared to the outgoing types.

      However, the reason why most nice guys are friend zoned is because they are lacking the fun aspect that most girls are easily attracted to.

      Also, girls do enjoy being around a man who has some sense of dominance in the relationship. Note that dominance does not equal to dictatorship.

      When a man dictates a relationship, he is completely controlling his partner. However, when a man shows dominance in a relationship, he is simply showing his partner that he knows what he is doing and how is he going to do it.

      Women adore this side of men and will crave for those that can provide them with that sense of security.

      If you’re a nice guy and you can incorporate that type of aspect into your personality then that is a very big bonus for you.

      Of course, it will all be how you play it out in the end that’s going to let your partner see how you are as a person.

      There is, of course, a type of aspect that you want to ignore at all cost. There are some men who are willing to go great extents to win the girl he wants but that’s all he’ll do.

      These are the types of men that will only do something in hope of gaining something in return. If you want the girl of your dreams to notice you then stay away from that habit or else you’ll drive her away. It may sound unreasonable but no one wants an act of kindness if they are expected to return it.