What is so nice about remembering such days in my boyhood was the spiritual lesson I was taught very early in my life. I can’t remember if it was my father, my mother, my grandparents or my Sunday school teacher that first pointed out this classic concept from the Psalms: “This is the day which the Lord has made; we will rejoice and be glad in it.” (Psalm 118:24) Each day, every day was a day from the Almighty and we were to rejoice in each of them. What I like best about memory is the fact that a boyhood day spent with your dog can be relived and instead of rejoicing in it once it can be rejoiced in again and again!
BOYHOOD
I remember my boyhood for its independence of movement. I was allowed to roam freely throughout the farm with Rover at my side. I rarely remember being asked by my parents, “Where are you going?” Or, “Who will you be playing with today?” When you live on a back road farm in northern Maine, there were few options, so my parents were relaxed disciplinarians who gave me much latitude. With money always scares, there were few toys, but Rover and I had great imaginations!
Around chores, we had plenty of time for fun. We played basketball in the cow barn, on our own court; Rover loved any ball, especially a moving ball. We played baseball against the front of the huge barn that sat beside our old farm house. We went swimming in the frog pond in the cow pasture. We went fishing in the stream that ran long the backside of the homestead’s northern boundary. There were wars to be fought in the woods against an invading German force, and Indian uprising to be put down in the forts of the haymow. Needless to say, I had a very active boyhood with few physical shortcomings to interrupt my almost daily adventures. The only exceptions I can remember was a rare case of Ring Worm I contracted from my Grandfather Blackstone and a trip to the hospital to get my tonsils out. Other than those setbacks, my boyhood wealth was in my boyhood health and the companionship of a great dog named Rover!
As the years passed, I grew steadily. I was always proud I was the tallest, if not the biggest of my Blackstone cousins. The McDougal’s, our only real neighbors, had plenty of boys, but once again they were small in stature. I was athletic and skillful in all Perham sports. I was a Perham Pirate, the local Little League Team, and played a lot, even when I was nine. We had a great coach in Woody Doody, the meat cutter at Holt’s General Store, and at eleven, we won the district championship over the bigger towns of Washburn, Wade, Woodland, and Crouseville. In the school yard games, I excelled, whether in snow football, or tag. I was tall and lanky, and competitive. I still feel the joy of running through a sea of classmates for a touchdown, or going six for six against our rivals at the Woodland Elementary School in our annual baseball game. Before I reached high school, I had grown to 5’ 10”, and was a freshman starter on the Washburn varsity baseball team. (I reached my teenage years, but Rover never did!)
Rover and I loved the four seasons, for with each came something different to do. We got bored easily, so with the variety of work on the farm, and the variety of activities at school, there was always a change in the routine. We loved spring for dam making and tossing a baseball. We loved summer for haying and our annual trip to Dinsmore’s Camp on Madawaska Lake for horseshoes. I loved fall for throwing the grapples during potato harvest and for hunting partridge. I loved winter for its snow storms and playing basketball. As I look back, I realize that I was one of those fortunate lads who had a great boyhood with a dog! I don’t know if Jesus had a dog, but I have been teaching young people for years that one of the reasons we can believe in Jesus Christ is the fact He knew about being a kid. Whichever age you are at, He knows about being five and twelve and seventeen. Luke tells us this about the boyhood of Jesus: “And the child grew, and waxed strong in spirit, filled with wisdom: and the grace of God was upon him . . . And Jesus increased in wisdom and stature, and in favour with God and man.” (Luke 2:40, 52) Over the years I have been able to relate to Jesus because His boyhood in Nazareth was much like my boyhood in Perham with the exception of Rover, or was it?
RASPBERRY
I am recording these memories of my beloved, boyhood, dog Rover in the midst of a heavy wet snow storm in the middle of a March blizzard in Maine. I do not know the reason one’s mind skips seasons, but for me I suddenly was again on my family’s farm in Perham, Maine picking raspberries with my dog Rover; not your typical cultivated raspberries, but wild raspberries. The thing that makes this memory so strange is that I don’t even like raspberries, but what I liked was to pick raspberries with Rover.
It is late July somewhere in the early 1960’s. It’s hot, very hot and muggy. Dad would say: “good haying weather”, but on this particular morning I would work for Mum not Dad. To beat the heat I tell Mother I would go and pick her some raspberries for lunch. She loved raspberries and I knew just the spot to find them in abundance; big, bright, beautiful ones, and I also knew the perfect companion to go with.
As I made my way through the woods towards the Salmon Lake Road with Rover by my side, I felt better already. Walking in the woods with a dog is the surest way I know to cool off on a steamy summer’s day. The gentle breeze through the cooler trees is nature’s natural air conditioner, and if you live in the city like I do now, man has yet to come up with an adequate substitute, in my opinion. As we emerged from the forest about a half a mile up the road we headed straight for the rock and tree line that separated our farm from Abel Brissette’s land. Along that hedgerow grew the biggest wild raspberries I have ever seen. Maine Black Bears, and I’m not talking about hockey players, often feasted along that hedge. They know where to find fine dining in Perham. To my knowledge there was only one other place better than this for raspberries, and that was also on my Father’s farm; another place only known to Rover and me.
As I moved into the raspberry bushes I found the canes were loaded with berries. The weight of the fruit had bowed the canes to my knees. As I picked, I moved slowly through the harvest before me. Moving a scrawny bush aside, I discovered an inconspicuous cane bent very low in the back. When I lifted it up I found on its underside no less than twenty-five ripe raspberries. But they were not your ordinary raspberries. All I could think of was that cluster of grapes the twelve Hebrew spies brought back after their exploration of Canaan: “And they came unto the brook of Eschol, and cut down from thence a branch with one cluster of grapes, and they bare it between two upon a staff . . . .” (Numbers 13:21) Isn’t it funny how a Sunday school lesson and a trip to get berries for your mother merge? I knew nobody would believe me, but through I couldn’t bring back the branch I could bring back the berries. As I took them from their home one at a time I marveled at their size, and then my eye fell upon the raspberry of all raspberries. Tucked away at the very end was the granddaddy of them all. It was bigger than my thumb; now that’s a raspberry!
After I picked several quarts of these wonderful, perfect berries, Rover and I headed home for lunch. For dessert that day I enjoyed watching my family add sugar and cream to my morning’s harvest. Though I didn’t enjoy eating any of them myself, I still thought and think to this day I got the best end of that experience, the better of the deal. Berries and blizzards do go together, just like boys and dogs! The sermon is clear to me: anything you do is more pleasant with a companion. Like me, Rover didn’t like raspberries, so the more we picked the more ended up in the jar instead of in our mouth. More for the family than more for me: “Look not every man on his own things . . . ” (Philippians 2:4)
WATER
“Still waters” don’t have to be big waters like David talked about in his world-famous psalm: “ . . . He leadeth me beside still waters.” (Psalm 23:2). Granted, I have spent more time near brooks and rivers and creeks and streams, but my first