The Only Stone Left Unturned (1905)
The 1960s was the decade when rebels had any number of causes: the Civil Rights movement, Women’s Liberation, anti-Vietnam protests. There was also another battle, and though it did not make the seismic waves as did others of its era, it likewise proved a noble struggle.
One can judge a culture by how it treats its aged. Filial devotion has always been a serious business in China, deeply etched in the national psyche. At the other end of the spectrum are societies that practice senicide—the killing of the elderly. The Inuit looked at the aged as useless feeders and sent them to a watery death on an ice floe. In contemporary Western culture, unlike societies with extended family units where grandparents are integral members, the old often spend their “golden years” in retirement facilities. The atmosphere in some of these institutions reeks of disinfectant and despair. The injustice of the mistreatment of senior citizens was a wrong one woman dedicated her later years to righting.
Margaret (“Maggie”) was on the road to activism before birth. In 1905, the pregnant Mrs. Kuhn was in Memphis with her husband, and unwilling to deliver a child in the segregated South, so she returned home to Buffalo before her due date. When Maggie was young, women had three career choices: teaching, nursing, or marriage; she chose none of these. As a teenager, she graduated with honors from Western Reserve University’s College for Women in Cleveland, where she majored in English literature, sociology, and French. A staunch suffragette, she instituted a college chapter of the League of Women Voters. In a 1993 interview, Kuhn said her activism began with her sociology classes that involved visits to jails, sweatshops, and slums.
With her degree under her belt, Maggie moved to Philadelphia and joined the Young Women’s Christian Association, where she became the head of the Department of Business Girls. During World War II, with the men fighting in Europe, Maggie—in Rosie the Riveter fashion—encouraged females to exchange aprons for factory attire. The YWCA sent her to Columbia University to study reform, and she lectured to women workers about standing up for themselves in a patriarchally controlled country. She found her career niche when she became the secretary of the Social Education and Action Department at the Presbyterian Church. In her position, she edited the journal Social Progress, which focused on the desegregation movement of the 1940s, anti-McCarthyism in the 1950s, and ending the Vietnam War in the 1960s.
In 1970, at age sixty-five, though she was as vital as ever, the law mandated Maggie’s resignation. Her employer gave her a sewing machine as a parting gift, one that remained unused. Although she had known termination was inevitable, Ms. Kuhn recalled she felt “suddenly shocked and wounded, then angry, at having to be sent out to pasture.” Recalling her reaction, she reflected, “Then I figured there must be thousands of old people like me, so I decided it was time to fight back.” Political activist Ralph Nader proclaimed of the expiration date on Maggie’s career, “The most significant retirement in modern American history.” Maggie decided she would not fade quietly away and stated, “Don’t agonize, organize.” Infuriated at this injustice, she and five female friends, whose employers had likewise been forced to cut them loose because they were seniors, met to address the problem of ageism in America. They formed the Consultation of Older and Younger Adults for Social Change. The group included the young, also victims of societal stereotyping. In a nod to solidarity, Maggie shared her large house in Philadelphia’s Germantown neighborhood with different generations. She referred to retirement homes as “glorified playpens where wrinkled babies can be safe and out of the way. There is little stimulation and people regress.” If she had to live in one, she remarked, she would just die. In a year, the organization had more than 100,000 members in thirty-two states and half a dozen countries. In 1972, a TV newsman dubbed them the Gray Panthers, a spin on the name of the civil rights group of the era. Unlike the militant group, her choice of weapons was words. Ms. Kuhn’s philosophy was, “Speak your mind even if your voice shakes, for well-aimed slingshots can topple giants.” Maggie’s mission was to end the marginalization of the elderly, a bastion of prejudice. As she put it, “We can no longer afford to scrap-pile people.” Headquarters was in the basement of the Tabernacle Church, and the Gray Panthers took aim at the lack of universal health care, economic disparity, and corporate monopolies. Of the latter, she said, “Power should not be concentrated in the hands of so few and powerlessness in the hands of so many.” In 1977, the group published Nursing Homes: A Senior Citizen’s Action Guide and initiated long-overdue legislation. After sustained pressure from the Gray Panthers in 1986, President Reagan, aged seventy-five, abolished the antiquated law mandating forced retirement. Kuhn, a powerful speaker despite her frail frame, argued, “The first myth is that old age is a disease, a terrible disease that you never admit you’ve got, so you lie about your age. Well, it’s not a disease—it’s a triumph. Because you’ve survived. Failure, disappointment, sickness, loss—you’re still here.” The Gray Panthers were sponsors of the Black House Conference on Aging and protested the lack of African-Americans at the first White House Conference. Another crusade was death with dignity. Their pro-euthanasia stance was based on the belief that when doctors take drastic measures to keep patients alive, they are not prolonging life; rather, they are just prolonging death. This subject was a raw wound for Kuhn, as doctors had kept her comatose brother alive for several days before allowing him to pass. Maggie took steps to ensure that would never be her fate, and her lawyer, minister, and physician cosigned her living will.
In 1972, Maggie, who the New York Times described as a “diminutive militant,” was a frail-looking woman who wore her hair in a prim bun that gave her the look of a candidate a Boy Scout would help across the street. She made no apologies for her looks or her age, saying, “I’m an old woman. I have gray hair, many wrinkles and arthritis in both hands. And I celebrate my freedom from bureaucratic restraints that once held me.” In attire, matching her spirit, Maggie dressed in an unconventional manner. In a 1992 interview at her home for the Los Angeles Times, Kuhn sat on a sofa, petting a cat, her staid gray wool suit offset with purple tights and black Nikes. At rallies, she would show up in a minidress or a slit skirt with stylish boots. When impassioned, she would punch the air with an arthritic, clenched fist, a gesture accompanied by her organization’s trademark Gray Panther Growl. Maggie told interviewers, “The human life span has almost doubled since the turn of the century. The challenge is, what are you supposed to do with that when you’re supposed to retire halfway through life?” The answer was the Gray Panthers’ mission.
In the 1980s, its pigment-free (gray) members went after President Reagan’s budget cuts and, later, President George Bush’s Gulf War. As a witness to the signing of the pension bill, President Ford called on her, asking, “What have you to say, young lady?” She felt his words were condescending, and retorted, “Mr. President, I am an old woman.” Maggie explained her anger by saying, “My wrinkles are a badge of distinction. I earned them. Don’t flush away my life by denying them.” The crown prince of television, Johnny Carson, felt her ire when she appeared on his show and criticized him for his “Aunt Blabby” routine. To make her point, she presented him with a Gray Panthers T-shirt and admonished him that the nation is full of elderly women who are not dingbats.
In her role of wearing the Gray Panther crown, her words were “honey with a hammer” as she travelled 100,000 miles a year as spokeswoman, wrote a column for the Philadelphia Bulletin, and authored books on aging. She was the subject of two documentary films, Aging in America and Maggie Kuhn: Wrinkled Radical. In the pages of her autobiography, entitled No Stone Unturned: The Life and Times of Maggie Kuhn, Maggie was as outspoken as she was in person, and her memoir included descriptions of her sexual and romantic encounters, from college days through her last decade. She expressed her romantic philosophy as, “Sex and learning end only when rigor mortis sets in.” She wrote that she was fortunate to have had so many “wonderful affairs,” including a fifteen-year relationship with a married minister and a liaison with a man fifty years her junior, a student at the University of Washington, begun when she was in her seventies and he was