Ritual is work, play, song, dance, and an embrace of the spirit. Ritual is change and forward movement, an affirmation of life. Ritual is a set of symbolic acts that represent a higher state of being. It is a raised consciousness and the glue that binds people together. It is time spent with the sacred, elevating us above our workday duties is time spent with the sacred, elevating us above our workaday duties to a holy place within and without. Rituals are freedom, the power of love, and the joy of release through participation. From Haiti to India to the Vatican, ritual is a vital part of people’s lives. The benefits of ritual are many: aesthetic, moral, personal, and communal. Being conscious of the power of ritual offers many benefits on an individual level, for groups and communities, and even globally. Our contemporary culture is in urgent need of spiritual renewal, and ritual can replace the void of meaning in people’s lives. Ritual can even relieve the modern symptom of isolation that has so many people spending so much time alone and feeling lonely. In troubled times, ritual can heal hearts and restore peace and harmony. We can enact rituals that liberate our souls, open our minds, and transform our lives and communities.
The human heart longs for ritual. To be fully alive and whole, we need to engage creatively in ritual. We should be active participants in rituals, whether they are rites of passage for birth, adulthood, marriage or death; ceremonies of healing, grieving, or celebrating; or political performances aimed at changing society.
This book is intended as a tool for you to engage more creatively in ritual than you have in the past. The lore and lessons have come to use from history. Rituals for Magic and Meaning can guide you down the path until you feel ready to take that leap of faith and begin to design rituals of your own.
I have listened to and learned from many master of the craft of ritual, and the message is clear: Rituals are the rhythm of life When you design your own rituals; you are designing your own destiny.
While this book focuses largely on rituals for the good of all, it also reminds us of ritual’s power to do harm. Harm can be avoided, however, with mindfulness to intention and awareness of the short and long-term effects of the energy being raised and managed.
We have all read frightening urban myths about “ritual abuse,” where well-intentioned folks fall victim to the manipulation of a misguided ritual leader. This “danger zone” cannot be glossed over. Sadly, ritual abuse can occur not only in cults and covens, but history has shown that it has also taken place in churches, synagogues, and temples. As people crave ritual for the sense of connection and spirit, ritual can be used to influence and control. Keep this in mind, and if you feel uncomfortable with any aspect of a group ritual, excuse yourself and leave that circle far behind you.
The creation and performance of rites and ceremonies are some of the very best activities human life has to offer. Rituals are similar to works of art in that their power may not be in sync with morality. Keeping this awe-inspiring strength to move the human spirit in mind and being aware of the potential downside of power will go a long way in preventing trouble.
Ritual has been used to change the world in dramatic ways. Mahatma Gandhi used ritual Hindu meditation to help gain India’s independence Gandhi applied his ritual fasting, the labor of his hands through the art of weaving, and his devotion to utter truth to help further his revolutionary goals. The Reverend Martin Luther King’s civil rights movement consisted of rituals, songs, and chants that started in southern black churches, where people were called upon to turn the tide and create reforms in civil rights. King and his followers used spirituals as a shield, chanting their gospel songs while facing down the police and soldiers. Nelson Mandela, born into the Xhosa tribe in the Cape Nguni region of Africa, ousted apartheid in South Africa in an equally inspired way. In his biography, Mandela recollected about his childhood that his “life, and that of most Xhosas at the time, was shaped by custom, ritual, and taboo. This was the alpha and omega of our existence, and went unquestioned.” Recently, we have seen suppressed traditions such as Wicca and other traditions of Witchcraft becoming popular. Wicca has a wonderfully straightforward approach about the subject of ethics through a strong code based on moral and personal responsibility. A brief outline of the three principles of the Wiccan way follows.
The Wiccan Rede
In his book, The Meaning of Witchcraft, Gerald Gardner states, “An ye harm none, do as ye will.” This statement encourages the individual freedom to do as you see fit so long as it does not affect anyone negatively. While you pursue your own interest, that is, think of how what you do affects others. This applies to all aspects of life, but especially with ritual and spell work because you are working with energies that have wide-ranging powers. This rule requires real attention and a high degree of consciousness in terms of assessing the repercussions of any action in regard to all the possible physical, spiritual, emotional, and psychological consequences as a result of all ritual work.
The Threefold Law
“What you do comes back to you threefold” resembles the Buddhist principle of karma. the Threefold Law is a directive to always think of the consequences of personal actions, including rites, ceremonies, and spells you perform. Negativity comes back to you three times over, so attention to attitudes and thoughts is absolutely essential. The flip side of this law if that positive energy also comes back to you threefold. Kindness, love, and generosity are all magnified. This is also a reason to do ritual work for long-distance healing and for global issues such as peace, the environment, and world hunger. Send good works and helpful intentions out to others and you yourself will benefit.
The Golden Rule
“Do unto others as you would have others do unto you.” Many people might find it amazing that Neo-Pagans and Christians share this basic rule of morality that places personal responsibility at the highest level. In other words, the “right action” is up to you and is of ultimate importance. The Bible tells us that “whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap” (Galatians 6:7).
You don’t have to be Wiccan to appreciate these basic principles for responsible use of ritual. These few, simple guidelines are universal in nature and can apply to any walk of life and to any spiritual practice. it is also vital to respect the diversity of religions. Respect others as you wish to be respected. In their ability to impact others, magic and ritual are serious undertakings. With good intentions and heightened awareness about managing energy, you can learn to become a responsible ritualist. Anne Niven, publisher of the excellent SageWoman, PanGaia, and newWitch magazines, recently related a story of a writer who was unintentionally teaching a less than responsible ritual. this writer’s recommendation was for teenage girls to go for a walk near a body of water and invoke the spirit of a suicidal banshee there to help work through their depression. To work with such an unbalanced spirit while in an extreme emotional state is potentially dangerous. We need to think our rites through in regard to short-term effects, long-term effects, and how we and others will be affected by our ritual work. Careful consideration will go a long way toward increasing the effectiveness of your work. A simple rule of thumb is to trust your instincts and do your research really well. Also, never take the gods and goddesses lightly, as these ancient energies are very powerful. To protect yourself, learn as much as you can about the deities, as well as the herbs, flowers, oils, and essences you intend to use. Honoring the earth and caring for our precious environment is absolutely essential as well. Ritual requires consciousness and integrity, traits that will serve you well in every path of your life. As a ritualist, you should walk your talk and act responsibly in all your work.