Rather than trying to motivate our students by telling them what might happen if they do or don’t complete their assignments, we can help each of them clarify what a meaningful life is and ask, “How does doing this assignment contribute to that kind of life?” This chapter’s activities help students think about how their assignments and interactions at school contribute to the lives they want for themselves.
Grading Your Classes
After defining criteria for what makes school personally meaningful, students grade each of their courses based on these criteria and write about how they can increase their sense of meaning in class. Try this activity near the end of a marking period, when students are thinking about the grades they’re getting.
Materials for Each Student
For this activity, each student will need a pen, notebook paper, and the “What Makes a Class Meaningful?” handout (figure 2.1).
Figure 2.1: “What Makes a Class Meaningful?” handout
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Sample Script
The following sample script gives an idea of how this activity might work in your classroom.
Let’s think about how schoolwork can be meaningful. Just to get started, we’ll use a little food metaphor. In a few minutes, you’ll see how it relates to making schoolwork meaningful. (Draws a matrix on the board. Labels the columns Yummy and Yucky, labels the rows Healthy and Unhealthy, and asks the students to do the same. See figure 2.2.)
Figure 2.2: Yummy versus healthy and fun versus meaningful.
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Yummy and healthy mean different things. For me, Greek salad is yummy and healthy, kale smoothies are yucky and healthy, chocolate mousse is yummy and unhealthy, and cheese puffs are yucky and unhealthy. (Fills in the boxes accordingly.) See if you can fill in your own charts with foods you like and dislike. Our tastes are going to be different. Anyone want to share what they wrote? (Pauses.)
Now that we’ve distinguished between yummy and healthy, we’re going to distinguish between fun and meaningful. (Makes a new matrix. Labels the columns Fun and Painful and labels the rows Meaningful and Pointless.) Draw yourself another matrix like mine.
An activity can be fun and meaningful, painful and meaningful, fun and pointless, or painful and pointless. You’re going to fill in your four boxes with activities, but first, just notice that something can be painful in all kinds of ways. It might be physically painful, but it could also be emotionally painful, like if it’s boring or frustrating or scary or stressful or exhausting or embarrassing. With that in mind, fill in your boxes.
What do you notice this time? Can anyone think of a meaningful pursuit that’s always fun or always painful? Is it easier to classify activities or foods? For me, even though I put swimming with my family as an activity I find fun and meaningful, there are days when going in the water is painful!
Now that we see that fun isn’t the same as meaningful, let’s talk about what makes a class fun. (Calls on students to share and records their responses, such as learning about an interesting topic, playing games, having a funny teacher, being with friends, bringing food, or getting no homework.)
If this is what makes a class fun, what makes a class meaningful? (Calls on students to share and writes their responses on the board.)
It might be hard to express what it is about a class that makes it meaningful, so here’s a list of things students sometimes say. (Distributes the “What Makes a Class Meaningful?” handout [figure 2.1, page 32].) See if you can choose three factors that are most important for a class to be meaningful to you. If the wording doesn’t quite work for you, feel free to change the wording or write your own factors. (Pauses for students to write.)
Now that you’ve come up with your three factors, see if you can recall a time when you had a classroom experience that was meaningful in one or more of the ways you identified. Maybe it was a particular lesson or project, or maybe a unit, or maybe it was the course as a whole. What happened during that experience? What was it like for you? (Students talk or write about their meaningful classroom experiences.)
How did it feel to talk about learning experiences you found meaningful? (Students might share feelings of fondness; they might also share feelings of loss or frustration that they no longer have experiences like these.)
Now let’s move from the past to the present. Please make a list of all the classes you’re currently taking. Beside each one, write what grade you’d give that class based on how meaningful it is, according to the criteria you’ve chosen. If, for example, you said a class is meaningful when it gives you opportunities to learn about topics that matter in the world, develop empathy, and show leadership, you’d give each one a grade based on how well it gives you those opportunities. (Pauses for students to write.)
How was that? What did you notice?
Now pick one or two classes that got disappointing grades. Not necessarily the lowest grades, but ones that disappoint you. Maybe you like the subject or the teacher, but you don’t find the class meaningful in the ways you identified. Or maybe you were more excited about this class at the beginning of the year than you are now. How can you take better advantage of opportunities to make these classes meaningful, or make those opportunities yourself? For example, if you think it’s important to develop relationships and you don’t feel like Spanish class gives you many opportunities to do that, then how can you create ways to develop relationships with your teacher and peers? Maybe you could meet with the teacher outside of class, or maybe you could study harder so you can have conversations with your classmates and teacher in Spanish.
Even though your teachers come to class with lesson plans and assignments, you can decide how you’re going to be in that class. Below the grades you listed, see if you can write two or three specific things you can do to make the classes that got disappointing grades more meaningful. (See figure 2.3.)
Figure 2.3: Example of a class report card.
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Follow-Up
After a few days or weeks, you can ask your students to talk about how their ideas for making class meaningful are working out, and whether they need help thinking of more ideas.
If students receive narrative feedback, either in their report cards or on individual assignments, another next step could be for students to look in these narratives for suggestions they could follow to make their classes more meaningful. Instead of obediently following the suggestions, rebelliously ignoring them, or feeling overwhelmed by them all, students can decide which suggestions match their values.
If students participate in parent-teacher conferences, they can present a portfolio of work that represents times when they’ve succeeded and failed to make school meaningful in the ways they identified. The conference can become