What if you suffer from overwhelming nervousness, or speak English as a second language, or simply happen to be having one of those off days when your delivery isn’t as sharp as you’d like it to be?
It doesn’t matter. You’re going to be judged all the same.
Now, here’s the great news. You can learn how to speak in a way that engages and inspires your audience.
You can learn how to speak like a leader.
Whatever your background or vocation — whether you’re an executive, homemaker, or student — if you’re committed to becoming an accomplished presenter and you’re willing to do the work, you can achieve the goal of consistently speaking with excellence.
And it won’t matter if you’re addressing hundreds of delegates at a conference, a few dozen attendees at a PTA meeting, or a pair of classmates at school. You’ll be forging a powerful connection with your listeners.
About this book
How Leaders Speak covers the five keys to speaking like a leader: preparation, certainty, passion, engagement, and commitment. It includes advice and insider tips on everything from organizing speeches and presentations quickly and efficiently, to overcoming nervousness and issuing a strong call to action.
Consider this book your comprehensive guide on how to shine whatever the presentation opportunity — whether it’s an important address, a crucial new business pitch, or a big media interview.
Throughout it all, consider me your personal communication skills coach.
What qualifies me to write a book on speaking like a leader?
First, communication is my passion. For more than twenty years, I’ve been privileged to help hundreds of people, from CEOs and senior politicians to unemployed youth, in their pursuit of the better presentation, the deeper audience connection, the memorable quote.
From my coaching experience I can tell you this: great speakers are made, not born. It’s simply a matter of finding the leader within.
The mistakes I have made
The second reason that qualifies me to write this book is that I’ve learned from hard personal experience, having made every conceivable error in the presentation skills universe, and then some.
I’ve shared your pain.
We all make mistakes. We can all fall short, in every endeavour in life.
There’s something particularly humiliating, though, about failing in a presentation, whether it’s in front of two people or two thousand. It’s as if the whole world has stopped to watch and say, “What a loser.”
The derision invariably comes from inside our own heads.
After a bad speech, or even an embarrassing moment in a speech, you may feel like you never want to interact with another human being again. Go ahead and feel that way, for a little while.
Then you need to get productive — analyze the reasons for the slip-up, ascertain how you can avoid repeating it, and get right back on that communication horse.
That’s how you get better.
That’s how you learn to speak like a leader.
The right to express ourselves publicly in a democratic society, to freely convey our ideas and opinions, is a gift, among the finest bestowed upon the human race.
A lot of people fought to give us this gift. We owe them our best.
So let’s get started by examining the five keys to speaking like a leader.
The five keys. They’ll equip you to excel as a presenter, even when the odds appear to be stacked heavily against you.
The five keys. They’ll help you open career doors that seemed forever closed, and facilitate your ascension to the next level.
The five keys. They’re how leaders speak.
Jim Gray
Toronto, Ontario
January 2010
The First Key — Preparation
How’s this for a high-pressure scenario?
Your CEO steps into your office and gives you some big news. She’s chosen you to deliver a keynote presentation at a major conference, “Industry 2020,” in two months in Las Vegas. Basically, the deal is this: she wants you to share the company’s vision with more than five hundred senior and mid-level executives from throughout North America, with the goal of generating excitement about your organization’s planned initiatives and, ideally, renewed respect for your solid but staid outfit.
YOUR BIG SPEAKING OPPORTUNITY
Congratulations. You’ve just been given an opportunity to speak like a leader to leaders.
You’re pleased and excited, right?
Perhaps your overriding emotion is fear. You know for a fact that the CEO, let’s call her Peggy, should be the natural choice to give this presentation.
But Peggy has made the decision to sit this one out. She’s received extensive media coverage recently, and feels that a cult of personality has been starting to develop around her.
To her credit, she wants to put more of the focus back on the company and its strong senior management team. And you, my friend, are a member in good standing of that team.
You suspect, though, that one of your colleagues, your chief rival and longtime nemesis, the widely reviled Tim, would be a better choice to deliver the presentation. He knows a lot more about the company vision. The sycophantic Tim is also tighter with the CEO, but Tim will be in Europe for some strategic planning meetings during “Industry 2020” and those meetings can’t be rescheduled.
So while Tim is slogging away in overcast Berlin, you’ll be basking in the spotlight in sunny Vegas.
Who says good things don’t happen to good people?
It is what it is
Now, a cynic might say that you’re the third choice to give the big presentation at “Industry 2020,” and the cynic might be right.
But it should make absolutely no difference.
Whether you were choice number one or twenty-one, you’ve been handed the ball. Now you have to run with it.
Put any negative self-talk out of your head and tell yourself here and now that you’re going to take this project on, and complete it superbly.
Not to overwhelm you, but following your thirty-minute presentation you’ll be asked to take questions from the audience. Relax — it’s all good.
If you’re not pleased and excited, you should be. You get to serve the informational needs of a prestigious audience, while enhancing your company and personal profile. It doesn’t get much better than that.
Few learned skills carry with them the potential to speed you up the corporate, educational, and political food chains faster than the ability to speak effectively to others.
Barack Obama, the forty-fourth president of the United States, is the most dramatic modern example of the career-building power of speech. Just think about it: Obama was an Illinois State senator, little known nationally, when he rocked the 2004 Democratic National Convention with his passionate keynote. Four years and four months later, he was elected president.
Chances are you aren’t planning on running for the leadership of the Free World, but you can employ the simple but powerful speaking techniques that Mr.
Obama uses to compel his audiences.
We’re going to assume that you’ve enthusiastically accepted the