So it really is best to always wear clothes that fit well; that are the right size and in shapes that make the most of your figure – day and night. After all, why would you want to let anything get in the way of shopping, having fun or dancing the night away?
2 Which are my best bits?
It really helps to get to grips with the shape of your body, as this will give you a head start in finding the basic clothes shapes that suit you. Most of us go up and down in weight a bit but, generally, whether we are having a ‘fat’ or a ‘thin’ day, our basic shape stays the same. Mine is classic British pear: I’ve got quite a round bum (Wayne’s really cheeky and says it looks big when I wear my Juicy tracksuits). I don’t mind my shape and it’s not likely to change that much, so I always dress to make the most of it.
Jacket, French Connection; shoes, George at Asda;belt, Mexx.
I think my best bit is my waist, though, as it’s quite petite. This gives my body good proportion and balances out my shape, so I mostly go for clothes that highlight it. Big belts are brilliant for this. Also, as you can see, I’m definitely not the tall, leggy type, so I always have to take my height – and short legs – into consideration when buying new clothes. (Now you know why I love my heels.)
I have to be honest, though, understanding how your own body shape fits with the styles you like is one of the hardest things to get right, and it’s taken me ages to figure it out. But when you have you’ll realize that getting the balance right makes a huge difference. Because I know what shape I am, it makes it so much easier to pick styles that fit. So I always love things that come in at the waist and that highlight my shoulders – like a Grecian-style dress, or skinny jeans and a floaty top. And, of course, my Christian Louboutin stilettoes.
Real Style Note
If you’re having a ‘fat’ day, wear clothes that are looser but not too baggy, as you don’t want to look shapeless. Again, it’s about highlighting your good bits.
Jeans can also feel a bit pinchy in places, so if you’re not feeling your best, go for an outfit that flows a bit more, like a nice silky shirt and skirt, or softer, tailored jeans (7 For All Mankind do good ones).
Wear something that you always feel good in, even if it is a bit dressy. A little extra glamour can go a long, long way.
3 Does this style really suit me?
Most of the time, you slip on a new top with a pair of your favourite jeans and you feel great. But sometimes, I have to admit, it’s not that easy. You look in the mirror and think ‘hmm?’ before realizing that sometimes the look that really works for your mate, or that looked good on the girl in the shop, doesn’t quite have the same effect on you. I know the feeling. I mean, I love to look good, but, like most fashion-lovers, I’ve had my fair share of fashion disasters. And there are sure to be many more ‘What was I thinking?’ moments to come…
Top and skirt, Balenciaga. Photograph © Nils Jorgensen/Rex Features.
Sometimes, if you take a chance, you can be really surprised at the results.
But of course we can’t all be perfect, and that’s just fine, because I really don’t think that’s what looking good is all about. In fact, over the past few years, I’ve come to the conclusion that none of us, no matter how fashionable or famous, ever gets it 100 per cent right.
The only way I can work out what suits me best is by trying on the things I like. I’ve even taught myself to stop walking past things that I don’t think are my style as I’ve realized that, sometimes, if you take a chance, you can be really surprised at the results. One of my favourite ever outfits was a little Balenciaga miniskirt and silk blouse that I wore to the Closer Young Heroes 2006 awards. I have never been a lover of minis, as I didn’t think they would flatter my legs, but Justine at Cricket, my favourite designer boutique, encouraged me to try this one out. I think it was because the skirt flared out a little at the bottom, in an A-line shape, that it felt a bit different. I decided to wear it with opaque black tights. My legs didn’t feel too big after all. That was a real result. But I really am comfortable with the fact that I won’t always get it right. I think it would take all the fun out of fashion for me if I did.
Real Style Note
Challenging your usual style can be a real confidence booster and can make you look at your body shape in a more positive way.
If you live in jeans and T-shirts, the Boho, or ‘new hippy’ look might be a good one for you. Try wearing jeans and 1970s-style blouses with floaty sleeves, and add some necklaces and pendants. (Freedom at Topshop and Accessorize are brilliant for jewellery with a little more edge.)
If you think that certain shapes are not your thing, just try loads of different brands on? from high-street styles to more expensive looks. It takes some effort, but keep searching and trying stuff on, you will be surprised at what you find.
4 Is it time to get a second opinion?
We all have these moments when we realize that something we’ve just bought is not quite right or that it doesn’t really look the way you saw it in your head. So, if no matter how many times you look in the mirror you just don’t feel sure about it, it’s time to get a second opinion.
This can be a little bit tricky, because if you ask your close friends if something that you’re not sure of looks good on you, the chances are that they might not want to hurt your feelings by saying what they really think. At this point I call in the expert: my mum. I’ll often get ready to go out at my mum’s in Liverpool, as I go out a lot there with my mates. My mum’s really good at telling me if something’s not quite right, and I trust her opinion. She’ll just say ‘not sure’ if she doesn’t think it looks good.
Real Style Nate
Remember that if you ask for an opinion you might not get the response you had hoped for. So try to take it on the chin and don’t take it out on the person you asked.
If someone asks for your opinion, it’s always better to be honest, but at the same time to be a little gentle with the truth.
Be as encouraging as you can and make any suggestions based on that person’s usual style.
I don’t always agree with what they say, though, so I’ll maybe just go with my first choice anyway. Some of my mates will ask their big sisters for help. Wouldn’t it be great if we could all just hit the shops and bring back one of those?
Style tip
It’s best not to wear skirts too short – for obvious reasons but if you like wearing minis, then styles that sit just above the knees are a good bet. Try wearing them with thick, black tights or leggings in winter. The bare-leg look is not one that many people can carry off. Especially in cold weather! But, if you have the legs for minis, why not!
Dress, Lanvin.
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