HAPPY KIDS
First published by HarperCollinsPublishers in 2010
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© Cathy Glass 2010
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HAPPY MEALTIMES
First published by HarperCollinsPublishers in 2012
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© Cathy Glass 2012
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Thorsons
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First published by Thorsons 2015
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© Cathy Glass 2015
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Contents
Copyright
Introduction: Why?
Happy Kids
Happy Mealtimes for Kids
Also by Cathy Glass
Cathy Glass
Index
About the Publisher
Why another book on child rearing? The idea came from my readers. After the publication of my fostering memoirs I received thousands of emails from parents and childcare workers around the world. They sent their love and best wishes for the children I had written about, and also praised me for the way I had managed the children’s often very difficult behaviour:
I tried that method and it worked …
What a good idea …
My son used to be very controlling so I handled it as you did and (amazingly) he stopped.
I’d never thought of dealing with my daughter’s tantrums that way before …
I now talk to my children rather than at them.
You should write a book!
Their comments made me realise that the techniques I use for successfully changing children’s unacceptable behaviour were not universally known – indeed far from it. I wasn’t sure I knew what I did, only that it worked. So I began analysing how I approached guiding, disciplining and modifying children’s behaviour, the psychology that lay behind my techniques and why they worked. This book is the result.
As a parent you want the best for your child: you want them to be a happy, self-assured individual who can fit confidently into society.
As a parent you are responsible for making that happen. There will be others involved in forming your child – teachers, siblings, friends, relatives, etc. – who will have some influence on your child, but ultimately your son or daughter will be the product of your parenting, good and bad.
I often feel it