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Автор: Тома Д’ансембур
Издательство: Эксмо
Серия: Психология. Плюс 1 победа
Жанр произведения: Самосовершенствование
Год издания: 2004
isbn: 978-5-699-89091-0
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психолог, ученик Карла Роджерса.

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      Маршалл Розенберг – доктор клинической психологии, борец за мир, которого знают во всех странах, основатель Центра ненасильственного общения. Горячо рекомендую прочитать его книгу «Язык жизни. Ненасильственное общение».

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      Ги Корно «И счастья нет в любви земной», 1997 (Глава «Любовь и война»).

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      Там же.

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