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      Bowlby J. Una base sicura. Applicazioni cliniche della teoria dell'attaccamento. – Milano: RaffaelloCortina, 1989.

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      Как показали нейробиологические исследования, в первые три-четыре года жизни воспоминания не формируются. См.: Oliverio A. Piccole memorie crescono // Mente & Cervello. 2014. № 118; I primi ricordi dell'infanzia: spesso sono falsi // Le Scienze. 2018. https://www.lescienze.it/news/2018/07/20/news/primi_ricordi_infanzia_fittizi-4052659/. – Здесь и далее, кроме особо оговоренных случаев, прим. авт.

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      «Земляничная поляна» – художественный фильм шведского режиссера Ингмара Бергмана (1957, Швеция). – Прим. ред.

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