How do we draw the reality of women’s experience in the history of the church in a way that doesn’t simply reproduce its lines but reads between them and redraws them for the future? Mary-Elsie Wolfe shows how in this thin book, thick and rich with insights about the past, outlines of the present, and outfittings for the future.
—Leonard Sweet
Best-selling author, professor (Drew University, George Fox University),
and chief contributor to sermons.com
Mary-Elsie Wolfe weaves together a tapestry of everyday personal experiences, scholarly sources and devotional thoughts in this book about significant “moments” that women experienced with Jesus in the Gospel of John. She’s not interested in debating the usual Pauline passages on the role of women in Christian communities; instead she invites the reader to watch, listen to and reflect on some very telling experiences and the underlying message that Jesus was giving about the place of women in his Kingdom.
—Bishop Keith Elford
Bishop of The Free Methodist Church in Canada (1997 to 2017),
executive committee member of the Free Methodist World Conference
Mary-Elsie Wolfe draws us into the stories of women in the New Testament who have fully embraced their calling and illustrates the lessons learned through her own life experiences. The invitation is to see with new eyes how Jesus and the early Church broke with cultural norms to include women and then to look beyond the restrictions of our own culture in order to participate in what God is birthing in the church today.
—Lynn Smith
Former VP of Student Development/Dean of Students, Tyndale University College and Seminary; author of Gender or Giftedness and Mentoring: Leaving a Legacy; founding member of NextLEVEL Leadership
Think of Christianity as a set of doctrines to believe or rules to observe? Then this book is for you. Wolfe makes clear, Christ is not out to make us dutiful servants but to win our hearts with his all-embracing love. Having Christ formed in us is what our souls hunger for. Mary-Elsie makes clear that no matter who we are, “our season of life is no barrier to having Christ formed in us.”
—Elisabeth Natividad
Lead Pastor, Grace Methodist Church
This is the best book I have read on the topic of leadership from the perspective of a coaching relationship. As a professional executive leadership coach, I find Mary-Elsie’s treatment of leadership refreshing as well as motivational. She deals with women and men in leadership in a fair and balanced way. Her thoughts about followership are quite insightful for both genders. If you want to learn more about leadership, become renewed in your leadership or have questions about women in leadership, this is a must-read book.
—Patrick Lattore, PhD
President of PAL~Leadership (an executive coaching company),
former associate provost and faculty member teaching leadership
at Fuller Theological Seminary
Becoming His Story: Inspiring Women to Leadership
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Library and Archives Canada Cataloguing in Publication
Wolfe, Mary-Elsie, author
Becoming his story : inspiring women to leadership / Mary-Elsie Wolfe.
ISBN 978-1-927355-52-7 (softcover)
1. Christian women--Religious life. 2. Leadership--Religious aspects--
Christianity. 3. Leadership in women. 4. Christian life. I. Title.
BV4527.W64 2017 248.8’43 C2017-901120-0
Dedication
To Elizabeth, Abby, Eliana and Amy—my beautiful nieces and daughters. May your lives be a tapestry of grace, beauty and the fruit of the Spirit, leading others to better places, propelled by the love of God, with full engagement of the gifts and talents that you offer the world! And to Alex, Patrick, Fletcher, Braden and Gregory, may you foster a world that enjoys the freedom of all people and sees your dreams through God’s lens of hope. To all of you, dream big—in partnership with the God who is so much bigger!
Contents
To learn from Jesus
My Story
Worldview and Cultural Lens
The Truth About Women
The Women in John:
Jesus Aspires to Great Things for Women
Context and History
Mary Models Discipleship 101