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      The High Achiever’s Guide

      The High Achiever’s Guide

      Transform Your Success Mindset and

      Begin the Quest to Fulfillment

      Maki Moussavi

      Mango Publishing

      Coral Gables

      Copyright © 2019 Maki Moussavi

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      The High Achiever’s Guide: Transform Your Success Mindset and Begin the Quest to Fulfillment

      Library of Congress Cataloging

      ISBN: (p) 978-1-64250-021-9 (e) 978-1-64250-022-6

      Library of Congress Control Number: 2019941804

      BISAC category code: SELF-HELP / Personal Growth / Success

      Printed in the United States of America

      For my little birdies, Syra and Sansa, who give me wings, and for my husband, Payam, who sees me.

      Never love anybody who treats you like you’re ordinary.

      —Oscar Wilde

      Table of Contents

       Introduction

       Part I

       Congratulations, You’re a Computer

       Chapter 1

       You’ve Been Programmed

       Part II

       Meet Your Operating System

       Chapter 4

       To Achieve or Not to Achieve

       Chapter 5

       How Fear Has Made You Its Bitch

       Chapter 6

       Don’t Just Pray. Row the Damn Boat.

       Chapter 7

       The Dangerous Allure of Conditions

       Part III

       System Update

       Chapter 8

       What Are You Worth?

       Chapter 9

       Your Feelings Are Your Compass

       Chapter 10

       What About Your Friends?

       Chapter 11

       Stay in Your Lane

       Part IV

       Smooth Operator

       Chapter 12

       Show Up and Use Your Words, FFS

       Chapter 13

       Be Tenacious and Trust

       Chapter 14

       Who Cares, Anyway?

       Acknowledgments

       Resources

       About the Author

      Are you successful yet strangely empty? Is there a void you can’t fill, no matter how much money you make, status you achieve, things you buy, or trips you go on? Maybe you’re doing okay, but still feel as if there should be something more. Do you change things up in an attempt to find the mystery puzzle piece, only to find that the sense of a missing element returns once you’ve adjusted to the new normal? Do you wonder if there must be something wrong with you and worry that you’ll never be satisfied? If so, you might be a high achiever.

      At the height of my career, when I was finally where I’d always wanted to be, making more money than I ever had, I was miserable. It made no sense. I couldn’t identify why, and as my awareness of just how unhappy I was increased, it took up more and more space in my head until it consumed me. I thought, “I’m damaged in some fundamental way. Why can’t I be happy?” The irony is that, for my most of my adult life, I have focused on gratitude and appreciation for what I do have. I was grateful for my work, my home, my family, my health, my friends, even for the coffee I lingered over daily, enjoying every sip. I had clarity about all that I had going for me. Yet, somehow, it wasn’t enough. I didn’t know why and had no idea how to fix it.

      I started tuning in to my coworkers in a different way. I realized that, though the circumstances of our lives varied, many of them felt similarly to me. They “had it all,” but it didn’t feel like much. They were exhausted, put upon, bored, anxious, depressed, overwhelmed, stressed out, running on fumes, irritable, frustrated—the list goes on. Oddly, it reassured me that I wasn’t alone. Not in a misery-loves-company kind of way, but in a way that sparked the thought that we all shared something in common that could be identified with the right tools, if I could find them.

      When I began the quest for “the answer,” I was pumped