JNika
© JNika, 2020
ISBN 978-5-4498-6309-6
Created with Ridero smart publishing system
INTRO
My dearest kings and queens, my beloved souls! I welcome your majesties on the pages of my InfluenSir book, your royal charisma personal guide – today you have me, JNika, as your pilot.
How to be an idol of thousands of people? How to be charismatic and inspiring on your blog? How eventually to be an Instagram star? In this book you will find all the answers – and even more!
I know really a lot about this things because I have more then 180K followers on my Instagram. I am blogger, life coach and author of 6 books, I teach dream life style, royal charm and charisma for several years and make my students from 47 countries charismatic real stars!
I wrote this book from my heart, it is based on my coaching and blogging experience – and I didn’t hire editors or translators on purpose so you can hear my real voice and real speech from the pages of this book, the voice you used to hear in my podcasts and videos. English is not my native language so if you find some mistakes or any weird phrases here please forgive me because I will give you all my secrets in this book which is devoted to charisma and leadership on Instagram and in real life – the secrets that made me a really successful blogger, speaker and international top-ranked writer.
CHAPTER 1. How to inspire the whole world. Hero’s story method
In our first chapter we will talk about how to inspire yourself and how to inspire others through yourselves. It can be little bit difficult to challenge the fact that until we are not inspired by ourselves, we cannot inspire others, charge them with our charisma and be leaders for them, and behave with people as a leader. And this, of course, is an indisputable truth.
It all starts with us and we come to such a magical topic as «inspiration» through ourselves, through the ability to work with our internal energies, forces and resources. You can say that you do not know what inspires other people and that you have nothing to inspire other people. But this is not true! Each person, each of you has something that you do better than others, what you do great and masterly.
And I suggest to start from this point. And I ask you never, ever, starting from this moment, think that your skills are insignificant and poor. There will always be a person for whom what you do is cool, for whom it matters. And if you know how to cook, sew, draw, embroider or simply apply makeup, then there will always be people who want to be able to do this as well as you do.
I think you already guessed – the depreciation of talents leads to their dissolution. And if people tell you that you are an awesome specialist, that you are doing something superbly, and you are dismissing it and neglecting it, then you already guess what will happen? Figuratively speaking, the Universe will shrug its shoulders and say: «Well then, since she doesn’t value my gifts, my presents, then I’d probably give it to another girl, the one who appreciates them better. Because people are a very accurate indicator.
Through people the Universe shows us what we are capable of.
Please pay attention to what other people are telling you. I tell you this in the topic of charisma and leadership in Instagram, because we need to be inspired in our hearts to inspire ourselves. Be your own biggest fan. Live a bright, beautiful life. Live in a magnificent Universe.
When we look into ourselves, we surely are looking for sources. We must find them. What can stop us in the search? This is an elementary banal laziness and excessive soul-searching. I ask you: at first do not go deeply into yourself. Do not look for subtleties in yourself: «Ok I can do this and that well but whats the point if everything else I do is bad.» Our task now: leave it all aside, tell yourself just like Scarlett O’Hara: «I will think about it tomorrow.» And you will think about it tomorrow – if you want, of course.
When we talk about charisma on Instagram – oh, this is such a deep moment! – we affect everything, we affect the power of our thoughts.
We can think about our beloved man, we can think about how to dress beautifully, what to cook for dinner. But for some reason, people prefer to think about completely different things. About things that humiliate them, about things that make them lower. Why do we have to do this? We must become higher! I will honestly say that it happened to me too, and then by the power of will, knowledge and consciousness, consciously, competently, I push all these thoughts away and say to myself: «Do you want to think about it? After all, there are a million things in the world that I can think about. Things that make me stronger and higher! Because only strong person can be a leader for his followers!»
And what if you sincerely think that you are really cool or awesome? Well, you are doing it right, because you are broadcasting it. And when you realize that you inspire other people, your life – believe me! – really makes sense. It really does. I want you to feel this feeling when you inspire other people. This is an indescribable feeling – nothing can be compared with it! Nothing is like this. This can be compared a little with the state of love, the thrill of the first dates – but this feeling is much deeper. Even as a writer, I can’t pick up any comparisons, analogies.
You will have only one homework for this chapter – but it can be difficult for you. You will write your hero’s story. What is the story of a hero? This is a story about your overcoming yourself, about your becoming. People love heroes – and superheroes especially.
My favorite universe is Marvel, I just love superheroes. Why am I telling you this when we talk about charisma or leadership? The industry of superheroes: comics, films, figures, logos – these are billions of dollars in turnover. And we as leaders – we are not just consumers, we are not just cogs in this system, we are not just looking at these magical heroes. We are leaders, and we make this industry serve us!
We realize that people love superheroes, and for them we become a superhero.
What kind of features does the superhero have? In any case, he overcame something. He BECAME a superhero. I do not remember such a superhero who was born a hero. In any case, he went through something.
We need to become superheroes for our audience. To do this, we need to tell a story about how we overcame something, how we came out of some troubles as heroes. Remember the classic movie when the explosions happen, and the main character comes, he has a t-shirt torn, he is battered – he comes out as a hero, and until the end of the film he remains a hero…
Why am I telling you this? Because when you introduce into the consciousness of people that you are a hero, that you have overcome something, you remain the hero until the end of the film. What is a movie? Our whole life is a movie. You become a series that is always interesting to watch. And yes! I’m talking about Instagram now. I always love to find someone new on Instagram to follow him. Because it is a series that you watch every day, and it never bothers if the person is interesting. And now we are learning to become such people.
Through vibration we include in our space everything that we want.
As a writer, I will tell you that the written word is also vibration. The magic of books is based on this. Words written have the same power as words spoken.
The hero’s story will need to be posted on social networks – and this is the most difficult. You will need to not only write it – you will need to publish your hero’s story, open it to people so that they see an example in you. This is very important – if you do not make your story public, nothing will work.
I noticed that people on Instagram are divided into about three categories. First category is home Instagram – for yourself, for friends. It’s just that people post something from time to time, share with their friends what is happening in life, and they are subscribed to several interesting people whose lives they are eager to watch.
The second category is vast: these are people who are actively trying to develop on Instagram.